thats the e mail my ex boyfriend sent me minute's after saying on the phone how much he wants misses me :
"Our time together in Greece was incredible, and I
wanted to hold on to what we shared, so- when you told me you were in
love and talked about being in a committed relationship, I wanted to
believe I was ready, but I agreed prematurely.
Although I care a great deal for you, it's too early for me to be
ready to be in a committed relationship.
As difficult as it is for me to write this, it would be unfair for
you to travel so far without understanding how I feel. I understand
completely if you are uncomfortable visiting under these
circumstances. If you're still up for coming, I'm sure we will have a
great adventure traveling, playing, eating, and getting to know each
other better."
IS HE CRAZY?UP UNTIL LAST NIGHT HE WAS COUNTING THE DAYS FOR ME TO GO SEE HIM. I HAVE THE TICKETS I WAS GONNA GO IN 2 WEEKS. AND I WAS GONNA MOVE THERE IN DECEMBER
2006-08-08 04:45:34 · 10 answers · asked by deina1981 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
'Why revenge? Sure it sucks but at least he's had the honesty of telling you what he feels before you moved there. Better know now than when you get there isn't it? Not very nice to do it by email though, he should have phoned you.
2006-08-08 04:54:01 · answer #1 · answered by chocolatebunny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would go and see how he acts around you. See if it is different. Seems to me like he either found someone new or he is trying to let you down easy. Go have fun and if it is meant to be it will happen. If not then it was never meant to be. Maybe he just isnt in love yet. Maybe he will fall for you this time. Revenge? If he is a jerk then I would go out while you are there and try to have the time of your life. When you go home tell him how much fun you had there with (make up a guys name) and thank him for letting you go because if he didnt then you never would of met (the made up guy.)
2006-08-08 12:30:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go sweetie, itis a great place to see! But go for yourself !
Not for him! Make sure you look fab, act like he is just a friend,
and tour guide while you are there! Do your best to smile
and flirt, But stay light hearted, and act like you are the most important thing there! Then when you leave smile and tell
him "caio baby, lower your shades, and wink! then wave
your arm and turn away!
1 You had a great vacation!
2 You did it on your terms!
3 You left him guessing!
4 Let him make the next move!
2006-08-08 12:48:46 · answer #3 · answered by Lilac_lady 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well at least he was honest enough to tell you the truth before you travel so you have to respect that. Sounds to me like he cares about you, but is panicking for some reason. If you love him (even though it may hurt) tell him you respect his answer and still want to come and see him. Who knows, after you visit and spend time with him and show him how much you care he could change his mind!!!
2006-08-08 11:53:06 · answer #4 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least he was honest. You should still go for the travel experience. If you were staying with him, check into a hotel instead and pamper yourself. I am sure he is not the only available man in Greece...have some fun. What happens in Greece, stays in Greece.
2006-08-08 11:59:39 · answer #5 · answered by perfectprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to choices: not go and never talk to him again and find someone who is ready to love a nice person like you or
2ndly, go, get to know him better, show him what he will be missing, live, have fun, maybe something good will come out of that
hey at least he told you the truth before you flew up there right?
2006-08-08 11:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has something else going on and is worried its going to blow up in his face when you show up....or he just thinks your moving to fast..although he bought into it now he is backing out of it...if its revenge your interested in...continue to let him expect your arrival...but don't go...and just let him worry , he eventually will find out you never attempted to go....kinda mean but deserving.
2006-08-08 11:57:29 · answer #7 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you already have the tickets go and have a good time tell him its cool and play cold fish with him yeah its strange but you have to respect an honest man now adays.cant you just go as friends
2006-08-08 11:52:35 · answer #8 · answered by nicole l 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Best revenge? Don't go.....don't email him...don't call him....no contact. And when he decides he DOES want you, well, let's just say there is no better revenge than that.........
2006-08-08 12:30:08 · answer #9 · answered by bluez 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to make him jealous by kissing someone else.
2006-08-08 11:55:55 · answer #10 · answered by Abird master 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋