I am 13 and my dad has been sexually abusing me since I was 6.
I am a devoted christian.I go to church every Sunday morning and night.My dad comes in my room every night and rapes me.I am afriad to tell anyone what should I do????
2006-08-08 04:30:59 · 27 answers · asked by freak_christ_jesus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Please go to the authorities this is very serious, he is sick and you are probably not the only one he is hurting. Please tell someone. This is not natural or normal in any way. If you do not step up and inform someone this could go on for many years Please talk to your mother, friend teacher anyone that can help. I begg you please for the sake of your life this could damage you mentally and have long term effects. You donot have to go through this.
2006-08-08 04:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by happyinlove 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go to a respected adult that you do trust and ask them to take you to the police while you make a report, once that is done do not return home, but have them take you to a safe house, where further investigations can be carried out......do not worry for your siblings, or other family members, whats most important right now, is removing YOURSELF from the dangerous situation,.......you cant help the others if you are still in danger. then worrying about family members and posessions once your father has been put in prison...........please do not become hesitant over this, you need to remember that its your father that has done wrong and not you.....your family WILL believe you and will be there for you and WILL support you when you need it. please do this for your own saftey honey, and that of your younger brothers and sisters if you have any......you dont want the same thing to happen to them do you?
good luck, i know how it feels to be sexually abused by a family member, i only wish i had have been smart and spoke up early like you have, it will be hard, but in the long run you and others will be safe ok.
2006-08-08 04:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a sad answer to have to respond to, but you need guidance. Sexual abuse is against the law that is why they call it abuse.
I am very proud that you are in some way seeking help for this terrible thing that is happening to you. You need to find someone that you can talk to and have that person escort you to the proper authorities (police or child welfare) to report this act. Do you have anyone that you trust. Maybe a brother or sister maybe an older neighbor that you can tell.
You should also contact your local crisis center, look in the phone book, there should be a 800 number.
Remember that this is not your fault and get help immediately...............Today.
2006-08-08 04:42:12 · answer #3 · answered by Monie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you just told quite a few people. try going somwhere safe away from him
i would say call the cops before he gets home and make sure they are there before he is but make sure he doesn't see any cars or he'll wait until they're gone, in which case he will come in pissed off and probably try to kill you.
or if you don't like the law, then blow his head off.
what about your mother and pastor? try telling them as well.
either way this guy is a freak or a pervert.
2006-08-08 04:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by Tony B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops immediatly or tell a close friend or close relative. This is NOT right at all and you need to get out of this. I'm really sorry and this should NOT be happening to you at all. Tell someone NOW!!! You are in my thoughts and prayers!
2006-08-08 04:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by ilovefromfirsttolast222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to you school counselor or a teacher. They will get you help. Lock your door at night. Where is your mother. Tell her. If you have to, go stay with another family member or a friend. Do not let this sicko do this to you anymore. If it comes down to it, take a knife in your room. I know he is your father, but this cannot happen. It's not right. Please do something immediately.
2006-08-08 04:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speak to ur pastor or the closest female next to the pastor and then tell ur mother together w/them and have them contact the police immediately..
he's a sick son of a b and u should not hold that in any longer.. then tell them u wanna seek counseling so that u can speak to someone who won't judge u .....
next time he comes near u pick up something and knock him over the head w/it...
2006-08-08 04:37:35 · answer #7 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is true you need to contact someone immediately. I am putting a hot-line number you can call around the clock. This needs to stop and they can talk to you about what you should do!! They will help you. What your father is doing is WRONG!! You are not to blame you are the victim!! Please call!!
1-800-656-4673
2006-08-08 04:40:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look you need to tell someone. He has no right to be raping you and taking your body. Cause he help create you doesn't mean he has the right to do this to you. U need to get help so that when your older and want kids you'll be able to. I know your scared but look you need to tell.
2006-08-08 04:38:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell someone- it sounds like you would have a lot of support from your church- your dad should be locked up- do you have younger siblings? When he is done with you, it will be their turn. You need to tell and get him put away.
2006-08-08 04:35:26 · answer #10 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋