Do I tell my boyfriend that his brother's wife hit on me?

Question

I met my boyfriend's brother and sister-in-law for the first time this past weekend. I have been dating my boyfriend for two years now.
His brother's wife hit on me while her husband and my boyfriend were out together. She made it perfectly clear what she would like to do with me. Do I tell my boyfriend or not?

Answer 1

I wouldn't tell him , as it will only cause family grief. If you aren't bisexual, I believe you probably told her so....right?
I would say to just let her know you are flattered (in some weird way), but that you aren't Bi, and are in love with her brother-in-law, and although your feelings on this subject will not change, you will keep this conversation under your hat. Then let it go.....
If, in the future, she bothers you again, decline her offer, let her know that you are extremely offended, and if she doesn't let it go, you will have to tell your BF.
She will most likely not bother you again with it....most women just aren't like that when they are rejected.
Telling your BF may cause an issue for him and his brother, or for him and his sister-in-law, that may easily be avoided.
Another thing worth mentioning is this: if she is Bi, 100 bucks says her hubby knows it...and probably participates in it with her..........( if she doesn't harrass you, keep her secret)
He would probably like to keep that private info confidential....it will cause a hell of alot of family grief to have their sex life out in the open under the scrutiny and judgement of others.
She just read you wrong, and gave it a shot........I wouldn't make a big deal out of it, because you'll be the one everyone will blame if the family falls apart.
Don't let her advance toward you come inbetween what might actually grow to be a great sister-in-law relationship someday in the future! ( unless she becomes one of those annoying stalkers....lol)
*added later*
notice how 99% of the females who answered advised you to tattle-tell?
I guess they think it gets them in tighter w/ the family to have the other daughter-in-law shamed...women LOVE to gossip...and gossip is what destroys relationships! I promise you that you DON'T want to be the BAD GIRL in this situation, and thats exactly what will happen when pruning branches from the family tree!
How would you react to this situation if it were his brother hitting on you? If he never bothered you again after the first time, would it have been wise to let the brothers relationship be destroyed forever and the family all hate you for it?
TRUST ME...you can't take it all back once its said and done! Try to let it go, it probably won't come up again. And don't spend the rest of your life locking the bathroom door at the family reunion for fear of her molesting you.....treat her the same way you did B4 she ever hit on you...she is bisexual, not a serial killer for Gods sake!
Go for a peaceful family life, not stress-filled family strife!

Answer 2

have a 3-some

Answer 3

Depends on what you think her husband knows or not. If he knows and agrees that she can play then go on if you like the idea. If not then why hurt everyone? The real question is not whether you should tell or not but what is YOUR level of interest?

Answer 4

I think that you should be clear to her that you are not interested.
If she persist then explain that this situation makes you uncomfortable, and I would advise you to tell your boyfriend if it happens a second time.

Answer 5

Holy thats crazy. And it depends on if you're interested or not. If you are, then yes, otherwise, just let it go and try to forget.
-Duo

Answer 6

well.....yeah. That's kinda "need to know info." I would tell - unless you're considering taking her up on the offer.

Answer 7

i'll bet he'd be very turned on by the thought of you & her together
i would tell him see what his reaction is
maybe his bro & him would like to watch

Answer 8

Tell him. He might freak out, but he should know what going on.

Answer 9

oh god.......i don't know......did you make it clear that you don't want any part of that???? I would say if she does it again then tell him.......you have to be very careful with these situations.....

Answer 10

yes