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Question

Why do men cheat??Why do women cheat??What can be done to prevent infidelity??

Answer 1

Honeybee is right...awesome, unconditional love. Just remember though that it is human nature to question ones own worth. Those who cheat usually do so to confirm that they "still got it." The reasons for wanting to confirm this are many (think they aren't appreciated or loved at home, too many temptations at work..etc..etc..etc.) Best way to prevent, is to be openly honest with each other and COMMUNICATE! Too many people won't tell their partner how they are feeling until it is way too late.

Answer 2

People cheat for certain things; immaturity, selfishness, insecurity.

Some cheat because they are immature(no matter how old they are) They always think there is something better "over there". They have some expectation that is not realized and figure they have no patience to work on making it better. Of they are just plain selfish. they want what they have but they want more. Kinda like greed.

then there are those who feel unwanted or needed, and or neglected by their partner so the "other man" or "Other women" gives them that feeling of being desired again.

Nearly 2 if not all of those traits are in cheaters. Also the cheaters fear loss over their desire to gain. Be it money they have to pay from ending a marriage, access to children, home and other finances. that is why they do not just end the relationship and go with who they are cheating with. Maybe they even fear that the relationship they have on the side will go bust so they do not want to leave their spouse(just incase). So, at least they will still have some physical pleasure even if lack luster, I guess better than none at all. But what it all comes down to in a nut shell is LACK OF COMMUNICATION. If partners were really able to sit, and talk, with out pointing blame. the problems that cause the union to grow cold could have been put to bed long before it festerd into one having felt the need to cheat. If you were in business you would not let a policy take the business to bankruptcy you would have a staff meeting to fix it. You have staff meetings to fix problems before they are BIG problems. Why can't couples do that?

Answer 3

Men and women both cheat because they have the opportunity
or are hit on by the opposite sex. And they like the attention. Most peeps have the need for their self egos to be inflated. Most are not getting this from home. If they are getting this from home.
And are still willing to cheat. Then they are hopeless pigs.
And will cheat given the opportunity! It may become a thrill
like a kid getting away with something they know is wrong !
Until the day they are caught! then they will or will not be remorsefully. Let them go if they cheat the second time cause they are then a lost cause. Everyone makes mistakes! But only
the truly worthy learn from them, and would not dare to repeat
it! Everyone deserves a second chance! but not a third!

Answer 4

Honestly nothing be done about cheating and thats becuase when one or the other cheat we dont find out until it has already happened right. If a women or man wants to cheat they are gonna stray out og the marriage no matter what we do. Can we stop No buty i guess we can try, right, if we could control a person every move like robot then we could change them and never let them cheat right, but that is never going to happen for the simple reason that life is not meant for us to control the things that only the upper power can do that and with that beind said all one can do is love like you never been loved befored, givie like none has given you, pateience, respect, and just knowing that your signficate other is taken care to the best of your ability is all one can do

Answer 5

You know if we knew that answer we'd make billions. I would say the best thing to do to prevent infidelity is friendship. Not only do you and your partner have to have chemistry but you also need friendship. When you can talk to your partner about anything like you do your best friend then you have something very special. You become to have trust in that person.. Your love grows. When you become friends/best friends you don't want to hurt that person. When that bond is formed (love is formed) a person thinks twice about cheating and the consequences not only losing a sexual partner but their best friend. So, friendship is key in a relationship communication and trust follows. Remember a person can avoid situations that would put them at risk of cheating!! I hope everyone find their true LOVE!!!

Answer 6

Unfortunately infedility starts in the youth and genetic makeup of an individual. Some people have a propensity to cheat based on either their personality or situation. Personality is made up of the person's basic genetic make-up and the environment that they grow up in (impressed with values from the parents etc...). Which one is the strongest...who knows becasue the "nature vs. nuture" is an argument going on still today.

So what control do you have over a cheating mate? I mean not to corral them and prevent them from cheating....but having a mate that has no true desire to cheat (all men desire good looking woman, but that is not considered a true desire in such the desire that a man feels is so low that he doesn't act on them). Actually you have no control over the cheating mate. You can threaten to leave etc but eventually if a spouse has a true desire to cheat he or she will eventually act on those desires.

What you do have control over is the type of mate you CHOOSE! This is the most control you will have over cheating in your marital relationship. You want to identify and choose that type of person who will be faithful, supporting and loving. That would be your desired end-state. Having said that.....it's not an easy thing to do. The cheaters out there typically don't get married to eventually cheat. Most get married to live happily everafter. Unfortunately they find out that they in fact are not happy and then through trial and error end up cheating on their spouse. This is one way cheaters cheat. They're many more ways they end up cheating...sexual abandonment of the spouse, emotional abandonment, abuse etc...

If you have a relationship and see the signs, i.e. cheats on you during courtship, cheated on others during courtship, alcohol abuse, drug abuse all of these are signs of potential cheating. You must do the math and determine first where you want to end up in life then find that mate that will answer you needs and be best qualified to get you there.

Check out the following website. It can answer your questions much better than I can. It can also give you a look at a sample life plan and a "bird's eye" view of a guy's psyche.

http://www.condomsbrasandstraightjackets.com/

Good Luck

Answer 7

People cheat for different reasons. Some because of insecurity in themselves. Others because their spouse shows disinterest. Its not a man reason or women reason though there are differences. Communication and reaction is the only way to prevent it.

Answer 8

Men cheat because they are dogs and they can never just be satisfied...Women cheat cause we can, and we always need to keep a spare around when the 'Main' acts a damn fool...What can be done to prevent this??? Dont date,but being alone sucks big time...Good luck!

Answer 9

plain and simple they never learn anything from the past they did when they were GF and BF that time. To done to prevent infidelity is to talk about alot of things before married.

Like what if I don't seriouly don't like sex later 4 years later. she would say I still love you. I told her wow that really easy answer you giving me but seriouly think about it.. she think and then knowing that she wouldn't be happy... We talk about alot of things like what if I cheated on you even if I didn't think twice or anything. She said Plain and Simple you know in yourmind is wrong and you have the right to stop it and if you keep on thinking and thinking that what lead you to cheating. I learned that I told my wife what happen even if I didn't do anything woman came to me want to have sex I said no. she said will tell my wife I raped her. I told my wife and that woman see me again and want sex I said no. she said fine i will tell her that you rape me why you won't tell her ha ha. then she told my wife and my wife said I already know because my husband told me before you did. That woman shocked why? 100 percent men will do it anyway what ever that women do but never told their wife or GF.

So, again it about people talk about this before married and Believe me will notice that wow really not made for each other yes we do love each other but knowing that not right. My wife and I talked about it and guess what everything works out now it 9 years and 2 small children and I really enjoy it alot.. smiling. that how it can be done to prevent infidelity and it plain and simple and no one ever talk about thoses things.

we don't go to church and things like that but we do know what marriage is about and we didn't have to read bible to understand marriage it 2 people make this marriage work..

Answer 10

Because they don't realize what they have until it is gone.
And sometime it is just because they don't care they are selfish self center bone head who only think of them selves egotistical morons.
They would no know love if it hit them in the head knocking them end over end.
Oh I am sorry kinda got lost there in the moment.
Well some men are just pigs, and some women are pig-gets
What can be done true unconditional love.