it's been 2 and half years since i had my son. so its safe to have another baby right? i am a young mom and ready to have another baby but my boyfriend wants to wait till i'm 18 before we have a baby so no one can say anything. my boyfriend and i are getting married in 2008. and i want to have a little of just us time getting used to the marriage thing. but we both want to have a baby born in june of 2008 what to do? but please don't comment on my age i am young but i am also mature.
2006-08-08 04:01:38 · 6 answers · asked by reba s 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If you are planning on marrying this man and want to spend your life with him, why have your baby now? I think you're right in wanting to enjoy your time with him. Do that first, then consider the baby thing. That way, life is a little less hectic and stressful at the beginning of your relationship. It's worth the wait!
2006-08-08 04:11:30 · answer #1 · answered by Duck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is safe for you to have another baby now......i won't say anything about your age cause i was 18 when i got married and then i had my first baby at 19....so with my experience i would say since you already have a baby why wait to have another when you get married unless there are financial problems.....i think that you should wait until after you get married though not because of what other people will say but because sometimes things don't always turn out the way you want them to....and if you end up breaking up that would not be a good situation....i hope that won't happen and it probably won't but just for your peace of mind wait until the big day.....i am now 23 with two little girls and i have been happily married for 5 years and we hopefully are expecting another baby i will find out in a few days.....i wish you luck and that everything happens the way that you want it to.
2006-08-08 04:19:04 · answer #2 · answered by beautiful 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and no... i'm also very young and dying to have a baby i want one so bad..it would grow your relationship to have another child yet could also break a relationship with all the frustration with a three year old and a baby. i would also think about the children...do you guys has financial stability.. do you plan on going to college? I think i would wait because when the time is right you and your boyfriend well then your husband will be able to get your your time out of the way... for a good relationship to work you need alone time with your partner... i would wait at least six months or more after marriage
2006-08-08 04:14:54 · answer #3 · answered by Meg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married first work on your marriage first. You two already have one blessing and a marriage on the way. Your plate would be over filled if you added another person right now. I have been married for 5 years. (We lived together for 4 years) I found out that I was pregnant 6 months latter. When my first child was 11 months old I found out I was pregnant again. My children are 19 months apart. I love my children, but they are a hand full. My husband and I work full time and my husband goes to night school. Did I also mention that we and more then double your age. I am telling you it is hard at any age. I just feel you need to get married and work on that then worry about more children you have a lot of time.
2006-08-08 04:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by mommaof2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say wait. If you want a baby June of 2008, I think you should wait and try around this time next year. It is safe for you to have another baby, yes.... but wait until both you and your boyfriend are married or atleast wait until you can agree on having a baby.
2006-08-08 04:13:09 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would wait intil a was married to add another baby, and just enjoy being married and your son. trust me the first year of marriage is the hardest and most stressful and adding another one right away will just add to the stress. whatever you do decide to do good luck and congulations
2006-08-08 04:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by happygirl31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋