when i was 14 years old i would always go to my aunts house to spend the night.one night around 3 a.m i was sleeping and my (female)cousin,she was 19,was moaning so i woke up and i saw her masturbating,i freaked out and pretended to be asleep,then i felt her grab my hand and she put it in her vaginal area,she made me rub it for a while and she kept moaning louder i was awake and my hand was all full of liquids,the i guess my aunt heard her moaning she walk in the room and saw everything,my cousin started to cry and told my aunt that i was abusing her,but it was her that made me do that,my aunt believed her and kicked me out and told my parents wich beat me and grounded me for 2 month.now im 18 and every time they go to the house my aunt dont talk to me but my cousin sees me and smiles,not a good smile,a real cruel smile,i get pissed off and lock myself in my room and beat myself............did she do this unintentionally or was it a plan to make my life miserable?
2006-08-08 03:50:33 · 8 answers · asked by monolith 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your cousin abused you. You need to confront her, possibly in front of your family. Don't let someone elses cruelty ruin your life. Professional help may be necessary. Don't be ashamed. I worked with teens who let stuff like this go on for years, please don't put this off. You need closure.
2006-08-08 04:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by Doll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is understandable that you'd feel isolated and betrayed by your family. It's important to remind yourself that what happend was not your fault and as such you should stop self destructive behaviour such as locking yourself in your room and beating yourself. Not only it doesn't help your situation it aggravates it by making you feel more miserable and alone. Find people you can trust and share your story with them. It is important in these cases to find someone who will be on your side and who can help you confront your family about what happend. Life and especially people can be unfair sometimes, it's unfortunate you had to learn this the hard way but now you must have confidence in yourself and move on without letting anyone try and bring you down
2006-08-08 04:08:01 · answer #2 · answered by Dr_G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately she probably was just in the moment. Wanted to get off, but she threw you under the bus when she got caught. I would talk to her about it. Tell her she needs to clear the air, or you will. Stand up for yourself.
If you don't want to do that, get revenge, and humiliate her some how. Let her know how it feels. If you do this, make damn sure the humiliation is legal.
2006-08-08 03:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by Highroller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront the whole family about it and tell what really happened, this is the only way you will ever start to heal. There are web sites out there for someone who has been sexually abused and that includes you so tell someone and seek help your live will be better after this is done.
2006-08-08 03:56:42 · answer #4 · answered by ctsgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she did it on purpose. if you folks didnt get caught by your aunt she would had kept doing it. try talking to your parents and get your cousin for incest and possible rape.
2006-08-08 04:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm..if this really did happen you shouldn't be on here asking for help you should go to a counselor, or a psychologist!
2006-08-08 03:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by Karen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Forget it make a new start in ur life,She is horrible for being a girl"
2006-08-08 04:03:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anjali S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're getting reported.
2006-08-08 03:55:05 · answer #8 · answered by Hot Pants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋