i left my husband moved in with my lover and moved out to my aown apt...i went back home but still seeing the lover but now he wants to see other people since i do have a husband...what do i do?..the thought of him with someone else so he isnt alone kills me.
2006-08-08 03:42:50 · 18 answers · asked by M. L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Decide who you truly want, your husband or your lover. Obviously you cannot have both.
2006-08-08 03:47:32 · answer #1 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do i deal with a lover who wants others when i'm at home with my husband?
2014-12-19 01:54:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not being fair to any of you, yourself included. Pick the one you love and don't question the marriage part of it, it apparently does-not mean anything to you if you have a lover and a husband so think about which one you want to be with and let the other go. If you don't then your lover may find someone who will be with them and just them and decide that your just a player and don't give a **** about them at all.
2006-08-08 03:52:13 · answer #3 · answered by ctsgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels the same way since you are with your husband. You have a husband either be there make the marriage work and let go of your lover. or leave your husband and be with your lover. It may not be an easy choice, but you do have to make a choice. Your holding one of them or both from finding true love with someone who only wants to be with them.
2006-08-08 03:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! What a mess. Don't you hate it when that happens? My suggestion is a vacation or retreat for you to get your feelings on board. Sorry you're in such a mess.
2006-08-08 03:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get single and perhaps your lovers will want you exclusively. Sounds like as long as your lover knows you're still married they will have others too.
2006-08-08 03:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him or get rid of your husband. it upsets him that you are with another man just as it hurts you when he's with other women. if he's worth it, get a divorce...if he's not, get some marriage counseling and start being committed to your husband
2006-08-08 03:49:29 · answer #7 · answered by bubabe_08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A cheater who is worried about some one who is cheating on her....... You need to get your crap together lady. If you spent this time with your husband and marriage instead of worrying about this stuff, you wouldn't be having this problem...............
2006-08-08 03:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In-laws gave husband 3rd degree..?
2017-03-07 05:45:10 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is good for the goose is good for the gander. Why should your "lover" be monogamous when you aren't? Sheesh!
2006-08-08 03:47:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋