My husband's ex-wife is still wanting to be apart of his life she sends him text messages with things like " I still want to be with you, I love you, you are my one and only". What would you do?
He tells me I have nothing to worry about but i think i do.
2006-08-08 03:35:50 · 11 answers · asked by babeusahot 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They have a child together
2006-08-08 03:50:52 · update #1
do you know the details of why she is now an ex? I believe you have nothing to worry about but if it were me, I would ask my husband to text her back and tell her he is happily married and to leave him alone. He needs to know how this is affecting you and you should be his number 1 priority right now.
2006-08-08 03:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by hummingbird 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
If there are no kids involved, then the problem comes down to your husband. He should change his home phone number, get a different cell phone, and not contact her whatsoever. If he's still talking to her, he might still have feelings for her. When I was 24, I dated a guy who was 35 and divorced. I thought he was over it, but he kept going to his ex-wife's house to visit his dog, help her move furniture around and paint. I thought this was weird. He said they were only friends and had a strictly platonic relationship. I couldn't stand it. It wasn't the reason I broke up with him, but I was relieved not having to think about anymore. I'm not saying get a divorce -- but you need to talk to him and tell him how uncomfortable you are. If he still insists on talking to her, then you might want to consider moving on. Best wishes to you.
2006-08-08 10:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's the other way around. How do you get your husband to leave his ex-wife alone. He is responsible for his own actions.
2006-08-08 10:50:47 · answer #3 · answered by Zelda 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are legal options. Get a restraining order and if she ignores the order, sue her. If your husband objects to this, believe me it's not over between them, and you DO have something to worry about! All men are pigs!!
2006-08-08 10:44:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your husbands responsibility to stop this! He knows this is bothering you...and he should love you enough to make her STOP! A good start? Change his cell number!!! If he doesnt stop it he apparently enjoys it! And doesnt care how it hurts YOU! Good Luck!
2006-08-08 10:49:05 · answer #5 · answered by mrssmokestack003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to tell her to stop with that kind of talk.. if he doesn't, then I think you DO have something to worry about. If kids are involved, perhaps he doesn't want to piss her off so he's "playing along"... but if no kids are involved, he should break it off. That's disrespectful to you!
2006-08-08 10:47:29 · answer #6 · answered by MadMaxx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get a life. You can even get a police order against her if you want.
2006-08-08 10:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by April 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him to change his number ... so there's no way she can get to him or you.. tell him if he's got nothing to hide and you've got nothing to worry, then let him make u feel comfortable.. tell him that it bothers u coz u trust him, but not her.. and if he cares about ur relationship, then he should do what it takes to make u trust him
2006-08-08 10:42:59 · answer #8 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her stupid @$$! if your husband isn't respecting your wishes then you need to take matters into your own hands. if your husband objects to it then give him a divorce so he can go back to that slut!
2006-08-08 10:40:35 · answer #9 · answered by gemone523 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have nothing to worry about when she stops that will hurt his ego more then you have somthing to worry about.be carful
2006-08-08 11:01:01 · answer #10 · answered by nicole l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋