i check his phone bill but nothing how can i check his emails i know of one how do i found out if he has others he says no but the girl he seen she says yes that is how she meet him in a chat room under a differt name how would one do this
2006-08-08 03:29:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The best thing for you to do is not to be in this relationship. I know you are in love with this man, but you don't trust him. You are going to find yourself everyday trying to find something to catch him with because you have been down that road. But if you catch him, tell me if you will leave him? What good will that do to ask these questions and you just go back to him and let him drive you crazy over his infidelity. You need to let go and let god. Because as the saying go whats do in the dark will come to light. Love yourself enough to let it go and move on with life. Because if you don't its going to eat at you everyday you are with this man. Yes its going to be hard but you have only one life to live. And to let one man drive you is not worth the hassle.
2006-08-08 03:42:07 · answer #1 · answered by Nita C 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
you can't check his emails, unless you know his login, or you look into getting a key logger program on your computer that will let you know what the has been typing in. Check CNET on the web for this possibly. Since you are his wife you should be able to ask him to see his email one day out of the blue, without giving him warning. If he is evasive, or doesnt want to do it, he is hiding something. You have every right to, now that he has already been caught once.
2006-08-08 10:35:47 · answer #2 · answered by Tunasandwich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are convinced that he is cheating, why are you still there? What on earth could this guy be that you would want. Trust is the cornerstone of a marriage, without it you don't have a marriage. Betrayal is the cancer of a marriage. If he is looking around, you are the "Jerk in Reserve". Go ahead and do the big confontation, then find yourself a divorce attorney.
2006-08-08 10:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really can't trust him completely, you probably shouldn't be with him. The checking up on him will drive you crazy, and chances are, if he's cheated once, he'll do it again. In the meantime you will be wasting your time, energy and emotion trying to be "one step ahead of him" in order to catch him, and depending on how cunning he is, it may take you a long time to actually catch him in the act. Use your instinct, intellect and perception, and knowledge of past history- follow your instincts, they are rarely if ever, wrong. Do yourself a favor and free yourself of this dysfunctional relationship and try to learn to love yourself and respect yourself enough to not settle for less than you deserve. Good luck to you!
2006-08-08 10:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by It's Ms. Fusion if you're Nasty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as dumb as SOME men are, they usually leave their password laying around written down somewhere. Don't waste your time doing this, just tell him that you know about his "other" name and that you will not tolerate this type of behavior any longer. Because, to be honest with you.........the internet stuff won't stop. You would think that after you caught him, he would change, but some people just never do. The internet causes so much relationship trouble, it's sad. Don't be stupid or blind to his behavior.
2006-08-08 10:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart u deserve better and you know it. Take him to the dry cleaners because he aint worth ur time or emotions. Obviously he is showing that he does not care about you or the way you feel.
2006-08-08 10:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Raid the computer. Screen names are sometimes saved to come up.
But if you're suspicious you should just be able to ask him. Or you possibly may never be able to forgive his past indiscretion and really should seperate.
2006-08-08 10:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doing all this spying, is it really worth it.. if u can't forgive him or trust him why r u trying to make things work.. if anything he should be trying to make it work since he's the one that cheated..
don't give urself a headache especially if he can't be honest...
i say get counseling or separate...
2006-08-08 10:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clearly you do not trust him. and you shouldn't. and it will not stop. either get out or except it as part of who he is and live with it. but don't keep tearing yourself up trying to prove or disprove what you already know is going on. I suggest getting out and moving on with your life.
2006-08-08 10:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by Em W. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater! Ask my ex-husband. Good luck to ya.
2006-08-08 10:35:10 · answer #10 · answered by amy d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋