worried but Internet?

Question

during my break back to the uk my wife talked bout giving up the internet and we decided it was the best thing to do as it was ruining our RELATIONSHIP so when i returned we deleted all accounts to help save our marriage and to be able to send more time with family.computer was taking over my life and my family very much it was the best choice i made giving it up.So now you asking yourselfs why im back online well. shes signed up for this thing im going to reply
1...i do notice you very much and notice what u wear etc
2.... i am very attarcted to you baby in bed or out of bed and how many times have i said foryou to take control of the matter.
but you dont and always say i didnt want to wakle u up.
3.... now u say .... computers are over with how can i be sure u mean it? fine having it all turned off at home but how can i believe u while u at work doing this

Answer 1

I am not exactly sure what your question is...

Answer 2

It's interesting that you think the Internet is the culprit here. I don't believe anyone has a computer that forces you to turn it on. I think that there are more issues, but they are definitely easily to overcome. First of all, realize that you and your wife and family spend too much time on the Internet. If you use the Internet to learn about sensual stuff, then your problem is that you and your wife don't communicate. Which ever of you has the issues of using the Internet for sensual play needs to go to their spouse and talk about it openly. Believe it or not, if your spouse is open and honest, you guys talking will be more sensual than using the Internet for thrills. Perhaps you two could use the Internet at the same time, to explore each others interests together. Whatever you do, don't blame the Internet. Take your problems by the horns and deal with them together. Be Polite. Good Luck

Answer 3

It is (the internet) given up. This acct. will be deleted before the day is over, I promise you and assure you. I only went about it this way to break the ice so we can talk about this. You know how hard it is for me to bring up these subjects. I wish I were better at things, but sometimes I'm just not. I was just trying to find a fun way to bring up and talk about an important matter that would be easier for us. I know you dont have a hard time bringing up things like this and can talk openly, but I am a little more timid and shy and although I can talk once its out in open, bringing it up is harder for me. Next time, I will leave a note under your pillow, I wont go about it this way anymore, soooo, check under your pillow often :) I love you!

Answer 4

you need to take the step and do what you have to to make your family and relationship with your wife better