look my mom and step-dad are in the prosess of getting a divorce and my mom is looking around on e-harmoney
2006-08-08 03:19:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my problem is she thinks i dont know and she is always trying to hide it and i told her i would give any guy she dated a hard time because i think this is a bigger problem for me i have NO friends i m all by my self all my brothers still live with him and i stay home buy my self all day and we dont even have any furniture and its been a month
2006-08-08 03:27:03 · update #1
maybe she has been unhappy for a long time, or maybe she feels she needs someone....just be there for her and lend your support.
2006-08-08 03:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by sweetiepi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is obviously very lonely and is looking around for friends and support. Don't blame her! Be there for her instead and make sure she has support from you.
why should you give her 'friend' a hard time? do you believe your mum would turn you on the side because she found someone else apart from your dad??? Grow up and support your mum. Make sure that she is happy. Divorce is a big deal, and to take this step probably took her energy away, why should you increase the tension and stress for her??
2006-08-08 10:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not, whats the problem with that? It's even a good start for your mom. Would you rather see your mom desperate and lonely because of the whole situation or seeing her hppy and trying to move on. You should the situation and the future and help her.
2006-08-08 10:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Mom sounds like a real tramp to put it nice. She's not even divorced yet and she's already looking ??? Sounds like she's more concerned with getting on her back for someone than getting HER children out of this mans house. Good luck is all I have to say.
2006-08-08 10:33:07 · answer #4 · answered by gozedown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look up some of your school chums. If you have no friends that is a different issue than your mom getting a divorce. I hope she finds a great guy, and I hope you get your act together and quit feeling sorry for yourself. "To have friends, you have to be a friend." Ask yourself what it is about your personality that puts people off???? Your mom is not around to entertain you, you are big enough to entertain yourself......
2006-08-08 10:32:06 · answer #5 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's looking for No. 3. Apparently marriage doesn't mean much to her. For God's sake profit from her example, and move out when you're 18. For now, you're stuck, so just keep quiet about the new boyfriends. Good luck.
2006-08-08 10:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like mom is having a hard time. That makes it rouph on you. Maybe you can get involved with some sport or hobbie and meet people. Maybe take tennis lessons, they are really fun and it's a nice way to meet people.
2006-08-08 10:29:08 · answer #7 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Mother needs to find herself before she starts looking for someone else. Especially on the net. Try getting her out in the REAL WORLD and asking her to leave the pc alone for awhile.
2006-08-08 10:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by $tormy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just let her be. She is obviously lonely and scared of being alone or she wouldn't be looking. Granted this isn't the smartest thing to do, but you cannot judge her. She is doing the best she can.
2006-08-08 10:23:15 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. Mad Maddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heres a hint, he is your step dad...she gets easily bored with a man and needs a new plaything! Unless of course your real father passed away. It's just a pattern, get used to it, because she isn't through just yet!
2006-08-08 10:25:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for her! She's doing the right thing, she's moving on. It's better for her to get a life than to have battles and depression over him.
2006-08-08 10:24:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋