Been together ten years, he travels, always has. But it wasnt a problem untill about 8 monthes ago. Now he has hooked up with a front desk girl from the hotel he stayed at. Not even in our home state. I know he wont move because of his kids, dont know if he will move her here in OUR home that he is fixing up. Feel like I will die without him. HELP ME
2006-08-08 03:03:13 · 6 answers · asked by pantsonhips2low 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Grow up for starters.
2006-08-08 03:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by Lothario 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's his lost, i thought i had find a soulmate for the rest of my life but 5 years later and alot of cheating on his part was enough. I ended up finding what i belive will be my soulmate for the rest of my life. We have been together almost 10 years and married 7. We are still happy together, and we don't distrust eachother, like i did my first one. I would not beg for him back, he don't deserve to have you. Let the front desk girl have the leftovers cause that is what she is getting, Let them move in to that new home he is fixing up cause now you will have child support to get you a nice place for the children while they are struggling to make home payments cause he can't afford it due to child support. Take the creep for all he is worth. Trust me there are more grateful soulmates out there it just takes time. Good luck.
2006-08-08 03:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by hopelovesu2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry
You'll be fine though...I think a lot of people kid themselves that they have a soulmate just because they're together for a longtime and they get used to each other.
Soulmates have to feel the same way about each other. He doesn't, suggesting you're kidding yourself. Leave him to it and go and enjoy life.
2006-08-08 03:35:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will do fine without him. It just takes a little adjustment on your part. Start with the attitude. Don't sound like a whimpering whining female saying "poor me!" Get up and get going with the rest of your life. Get involved in your job, church, support group, hobby, what ever you can find. You have lost one soul mate. You will find that people can have several soul mates as they go through life. People change and grow emotionally through out their lives, and may meet different soul mates at different times in this change.
2006-08-08 03:11:14 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the saying if you love something set it free if it comes back it was ment to be.
Well He seems to have decided that he needs to go elsewhere for pleasure or what ever and I am surpirised that you aren't mad about it and if you aren't then just let him go.
You won't die without him and if anything you may find someone that you were ment to be with and be happy with. that can treat you the way you need to be treated.
Sometimes men just don't think.
2006-08-08 03:23:32 · answer #5 · answered by Not a Daddys Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is doing that to you you've mistaken ,he is not your soulmate and since you do believe in soulmates the good news is yours is sill out there somewhere .
2006-08-08 03:29:14 · answer #6 · answered by nicole l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋