Whats the difference between a lover and a very good friend who you sleep with? Bearing in mind that the guy has a girlfriend and is also sleeping with a very good friend.
2006-08-08 02:58:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Gee! What a set up, why would ya bother being b/f and g/f. Over my head, nothing happy's gonna come from all that lot, maybe a disease that'll spread real fast. YUK, YUK, YUK!
2006-08-08 03:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by Ms CMP5260 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason guys are sleeping together are different. Lovers sleep together out of love. Other sleep together for a release not so much love. Maybe they enjoy having sex with each other but the levelof intimacy is not as is two who are in love.
2006-08-08 03:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by omsuperhoops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, you don't sleep with a friend. If you have a male friend that is your "good" friend and he sleeps with you and has no "feelings" for you, he's not a friend. He's using you. A boyfriend has romantic feelings for you. He's a good friend but he's also interested in having a relationship with you. A GOOD FRIEND is someone who wants the sex without complication. Without committing to you. Make sure that men are staright with you from the beginning and you can avoid being someone's filthy rag. I'm telling you out of experience. Now I'm wise enough and blessed enough to know the difference.
2006-08-08 03:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by danielle_la_flor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lover is someone you are emotionally attached to. Someone you might not use protection with and when it's done and over, lay down with them without getting up to go to the "Very good friend you sleep with"
A good friend you sleep with. That's someone who is raw, freaky, nasty (in a good way, lol) and down for anything. You WOULD use a condom with the good friend.
Right now I have a man and I'm bi so when we have threesomes, i would consider my man my lover and the female a very good friend I sleep with.
Diva
2006-08-08 03:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by black_bi_diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess a lover is someone who you love that you're sleeping with like a boyfriend and just having sex with a friend is like having a f u c k i n g partner and that's it
2006-08-08 03:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being intimate with a lover leads to a relationship, having sex with a friend usually doesn't ...sleeping with someone who is all ready in another relationship...changes the quality of your character all together...your selfish, untrustworthy and have very low self esteem...and probably have a sexually transmitted disease...your screwed up in more than one way...clean your act up before you contract something you can't get rid of.
2006-08-08 03:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lover is only yours, friend with benefits is a disaster in the making! use protection darlin otherwise u could end up with something really nasty!
What the heck, why dont all of you get together on a king size bed and enjoy each other? its fun really and you learn new ways to do things!
2006-08-08 03:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by jelli_bean_36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds the same to me, I was in this situation with a girlfriend, worked out fine all round, we'd get together a few times a month, great sex, no commitments beyond that & simply enjoy each others company -- guilt free.
2006-08-08 03:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by Auggie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the difference is that person dont have any feelings for that very good friends like he does with his gf???
2006-08-08 03:02:31 · answer #9 · answered by Yen Anh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same difference, he is your lover no matter how much you try to deny it.
2006-08-12 01:34:19 · answer #10 · answered by Gavin T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋