i am a young man aged 26.three years ago i used to go out with a girl[x].after only about two month she came to see me at around 8p.m at a local public phone booth which was about 200metres from her home,we talked for about 30 minutes ,she said her parents had gone to church and could return anytime so i left her,just as soon as arriving at my home i heard a knock and opened to see [x] standing saying she had been chased away from home and wanted company to her sister's place.i could smell trouble but couldn't let her go alone.on arrival she told her sister the story and she promised to talk to the parents the next day so i left .the next day i went there early morning to check but to see they were sleeping,i insisted them to leave right away but only to leave after about 4hours.they said the parents refused and she came to live with me.we had a daughter,i wasn't going to work,the parents took her away from poverty.now i have a good job she want to come back,i love my daughter.mo news
2006-08-08 02:57:31 · 4 answers · asked by ras 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes you have to think of the childs happiness. I was bought up in a fatherless home and it broke my heart and it makes relationships hard. If you love the girl then what's wrong with taking her back? Whatever happens make sure that your daughters happiness comes first and that making sure she doesn't see you and your X arguing if you do get together etc. If you decide to get back together both of you must be wholey committed and really go for it and make sure that your daughter feels secure and loved - not piggy in the middle.
2006-08-08 03:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see the thing with families is that they plain,they might have set you up so as you can marry to her,why wait for 4 hours?than again how do you feel bout her?how has been her / your life the past 3 years?(are you or is she seeing any one? remember the childs happiness comes first!
2006-08-08 10:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by ice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
were u being set up in d first place ? anyway if u love her give her another chance or may b 4 ur child sake . still u hv 2 get a straight answer fm her - y she comes back ?????
2006-08-08 22:37:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her, take her back
2006-08-08 10:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by babygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋