k ppl i really need some help..and i kinda need it a lil fast...see the thing is i know this guy...( WE AREN'T GOING OUT OR ANYTHING) jus friends i think.....i liked him as a friend..and we used to get along pretty well...well that was untill i got to know who exactly he was...a lott of people have told me that he isn't nice at all..and i shouldn't be having any contact with him..sort of like a bad guy..a play boy type...other than all this i've heard a lotta other ****..that he bluffs a lot..now i jus don't know what to do...i jus can't seem to believe whatever he says...and want to break things of.. i tried to avoid him, fought with him tell him to forget everything..but apparently he doesn't want to loose a friend..which is **** of course...i want to get outta this thing but am not able to....can anyone pls help me out here..i'm desperate to find a way out...
2006-08-08 02:55:15 · 7 answers · asked by poison 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If he hasn't done anything to hurt you why do you want so desparately to get out of the friendship? What does it matter what other people say about him. If he is truly your friend and has your best interests at heart be his friend in turn. Don't drop him because of what others say.
2006-08-08 03:01:58 · answer #1 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were friends with him first and you are pretty close why are listening to everyone else? Ask him about what others are saying about him. Remember that not everyone knows what they are talking about. Even "bad boys" need a good friend. Dont run out on him just because a few people say he bluffs or whatever. If you were friends first and he treated you nice then dont leave. Stick up for him when people talk bad about him.
2006-08-08 10:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by Erin B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said a lot of people have told you. How many? and Are they just trying to separate you to for some reason? If you can answer both those questions without hesitation, then I would say just tell him to buzz off. That you are moving on with your life and would like him to do the same. If worse comes to worse there is a thing called a restraining order, but lets hope it doesn't come to that. Good luck. Amen Erin B, good advise.
2006-08-08 10:15:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you listening to other people. You haven't said that he has done anything to you. You aren't being a very good friend he should drop you as a friend. Did you ever stop to think people may be jealous of your relationship with him so they are trying to break up your friendship? Maybe you are his calm place. But if you want to listen to gossip go ahead and tell him why you want nothing to do with him then he can treat you the way he treats everyone else and you can be happy.
2006-08-08 10:05:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really believe that he's just trouble, then don't talk to him. Of course he's going to come back to you once you stop talking to him, but just keep moving on with your own life. I sort of had the same thing happen to me before, only I found out myself that some guy I knew was trouble. Eventually, I did keep away from him, but he kept trying to talk to me. Just keep walking away and ignoring him. The only time that you should respond to him is if he threats you or he hurts you or someone else. I'm not trying to scare you. But if you really feel that things need to end with him, then end it. You are in control over your own life, not him. And make sure that he knows that. And he'll know it once you ignore him and once you stay away from him.
2006-08-08 10:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go for wat ppl say
do u like dis guy or not? if u r happy being his friendden be his friend irrespective of wat ppl say. dats wat friends r for right? u shud be loyal. but if u urself are not happy hanging out wif him den tell him dat frankly. tell him he shoul either behave himself or loose u as a friend.
if things turn nasty den get ur parents involved. dey will help u out.
2006-08-08 10:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by urfriendfrlife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just quit talking to him, tell him to leave you alone and you don't have time for his bull.
2006-08-08 10:01:26 · answer #7 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋