Do You Think Anyone Would Care If I Ended My Life?

Question

Everyone seems to hate me severely now...

Answer 1

please dont. I dont hate you. I just want to wrap all of you guys up in a warm fuzzy blanket and hug each and every one of you. You guys are just so sweet.

Listen bud no one really hates you, They are just confused. You need to give them time to accept the real you.
Contact me through yahoo 360 dude. We need to talk.

Answer 2

Life isn't measured by how many people you love, but by how many people love you. If everybody seems to "hate you severely now", then I would say you have work to do. You need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and get out there and make them all love you. go read a book on how to be a better person, or just listen to yourself, you'll figure out a plan. Ending your life is just like putting the big "L" on your forehead and saying to the rest of the world they were right in hating you. Here's a quick first step; smile and the world will smile with you. Second; if you can't make a mistake, you can't make anything (Abraham Lincoln). Third; who knows what tomorrow brings, only time will tell.

Answer 3

I <3 u

Answer 4

Hi. You don't tell why you think everyone hates you severely now. I am sure that people would care if you ended your life.

If you feel that your life is not worth living anymore, give it to an organization that could really use you (Save the Children, etc.). I would also get counseling to help you see the value of your life. Just by the amount of answers you've received so far, you should realize that your life is valuable.

Answer 5

Look I read your other post - so I do know what you are going through and a LOT of other people have been through the same exact thing and managed to 'get through it' - as will you - unless you kill yourself. If you do that and give up you will never know what life had in store for you. Tomorrow is a promise of hope. Everyone goes through hard times - that really is what builds our character. You are paying your dues now. You said yourself that you had been a homophobic - well guess what that means you've some repenting to do - not to some deity or God but to those around you that you may have hurt. You have a lot to do - coming out is a very busy time - you have to work on; getting your lisp, becoming a $lut, learning all the old Cher songs by heart, going shopping for new gay clothes....frankly I think you are going to be way to busy to be killing yourself!

And think of everything you will miss....your first real kiss with a guy who curles your toes, your first night out at a gay club, Mardi Gras, the Pride Parades...so much to do and already so little time to get it all done...you simply do not have the time right now. God will take you soon enough - let him choose the time when he is ready to see you, there is nothing so rude as a guest who arrives too early - and we gays are NOT RUDE.

Answer 6

Darragh, I can't improve on the very good advice in many of the answers, I can only say that every setback seems unbearable at your age - but it isn't. There seems to be no end or solution to life's problems - but there is. You must be a little stronger and more patient and not give up at the first hurdle.

You might be surprised to find that if you can be honest about your situation, far from hating you severely or at all, quite a lot of people will prefer you. People like their friends to be honest. If some of your friends turn against you, junk them and stick with the good ones. New ones will turn up, don't worry.

And don't beat yourself up: love yourself. Why not? There's nothing wrong with you. You're a person who knows an important truth about himself. That's a big advance. No one much cares to be around a self-pitying whinger, but people who are at ease with themselves magically attract others.

Would anyone care if you ended your life? Many of the people who've written to you on this site would care, including me, otherwise I wouldn't have taken the time to write this. Pick yourself up and smile.

Answer 7

Darragh, I hope the amount of answers you are getting from people who care is convincing you that we care!

Your family and friends care so much more than it may seem. Sometimes they give you a hard time precisely because they care and so they worry or freak out or try to change you into what you're not in an attempt to "save" you. I'm absolutely sure they mean well deep down, even if they react in all the wrong ways due to their own helplessness.

Sometimes it's hard to see the light but it's there, and life is a million times better after mastering difficulties. You will feel so proud of yourself and so happy to be exactly who you are. You will feel so right when you are who you are, a gift to the world. You wouldn't want to miss that wonderful opportunity to give to the world the gifts you were born with. Who knows, maybe you're really changing the lives of the people who are giving you a hard time now - maybe they will learn from you to allow themselves to be who they are, and then they will be happier too...

The world needs you. We need you. Be who you are, feel how powerful you are by being that, you will master these difficulties and smile again. Way more than ever before! :)

Answer 8

I've never met you, but I know that everyones life effects someone else. Of course people will care if you end your life. More than that, you should care. Whatever the reason you feel people hate you, you can mend the relationship on your part, so that you feel at peace. Just hold on, the light will come! Call someone you trust, that you can be open with, and who won't judge what you say. Sometimes just getting something off your chest can help tremendously!!

Answer 9

I know you have now recieved 49 answers to this question. However I also know every word of encouragement right now will help you through your time of need. First know God loves you and he did not put you down here to end your life. So please don't.
Now you just came out. Coming out to most parents and friend is as much of a shock to them as it was for you to come to the realization you are gay. For them they now have to fight with in themselves the preconcieved thoughts about gays, and realize you are still the wonderful person you were before. This will take most people time. Please give it to them. Give them your understanding as well. Show them you are the same wondeful guy.
In the mean time find some people to talk to. Make some new friends. There are many places to turn to. i don't knwo where you live, but look for a local PFLAG chapter, gay/straight alliance at school, MCC church, or another gay person. Find someone you can talk to to voice your fears. Most people will tell you that you will be ok. You're life is never going to be what it was before. It will get better, I promise.
If you need a friend to talk to I'm there for ya, and be happy to talk to you online through emails. Use my contact information and email me. You will find new friends, you will eventually be loved by your family again, and you will someday find some guy that will become your world. You will love him like no other.

Answer 10

I am not sure why you feel this way, but I hope you will consider that your life is more valuable than what others feel about you, and if it makes a difference, I care. People say things to hurt, we all have at one time or another, and this is not right but it happens. We will all have to leave here, so just Waite your turn, don't be in such a rush, you never know what is in store for you, I bet you in a years time, you will be glad you did not make that decision. And guess what, you don't have to know someone to love them... so if no one else has told you, then I will, Love Ya! By the way, don't let idiots get to you with their silly replays, again people say things to hurt, and a lot of times it's because they are hurting inside themselves.

Answer 11

Whatever the reason for people hating you, I'm sure it will all be forgotton about in a few days. Don't take your own life and if you really feel like you want to why not go see a professional, seems like theres alot going on in your life that only you can sort out not any of us.
I'm sure that everyone would be upset if you were nolonger around, don't do it!