did you tell them? did you do it more than once? I want to know about experiences. Just taking sort of a survey here, thanks.
2006-08-08 02:27:44 · 12 answers · asked by itsasecret 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
okay, i'm only asking for answers from people who have cheated! Also, NO I didn't cheat on my boyfriend, I am writing a psych paper!
2006-08-08 02:37:31 · update #1
Not I! Cheating is BAD!
2006-08-08 02:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by Mo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I "cheated" once on my first girlfriend--but didn't have sex w/ the "cheatee"--so that's not rilly cheating, right?
We just French-kissed all night, and I caressed her breasts and masturbated her a bit. She reached into my pants too. (We were in a car with two co-worker girls of mine, parked in a peach grove drinking after work at Burger King®, so we couldn't rilly go all the way anyway.)
But the next time the girl wanted to go out again, I felt guilty with my g/f, so I told the girl I had "gotten back together" with my g/f. We had been in an argument, so that's why I went out with the other girl.
That's the only time I ever cheated on anyone. Ironically, my g/f wound up cheating on me big time: she found another boyfriend (who wasn't even a US citizen; he was a co-worker of hers at a packing house in Del Rey, California). She was undocumented, as was he. I eventually called the immigration on the packing shed where they worked--SunnyCal, or SunWest, something like that. I gave her name and her two sister's names. The immigration took forever to go there, but they finally hit the place about a week before Christmas. They said about 2/3 of the workers there (about 50, 60 people) lost their jobs--one guy had even been there for 27 years. I guess I messed up a lot of people's Christmas that year--but at least I got her back.
It's not that I was angry at her for cheating; she was boasting that she had a "sure" job while I was struggling to find a job that summer. So when I called the immigration, I thought to myself: "Nothing is sure in this life, honey."
If you are wondering what happened to the people who got busted by the immigration that day, they didn't get deported; they just had their fake green cards taken away. The immigration officers brought a portable machine there with them and ran everyone's cards through it: green light for good; red light for bad. For every bad card that was found, the packing company was fined $500. That must have been a big-*** fine!
I was like a blietzkrieg fisherman that day: I cast a net and caught 60 fish just to get the four or five I wanted (my ex, her sisters, and her new b/f).
That was the bad me, about 11 years ago. I'm a peaceful person now; I don't hold grudges.
But anyway, was it my fault those people had been working there over 25 years without getting their legal paperwork done? It's every citizen's right to report businesses that employ undocumented workers anyhow, you know.
But yeah, I know...I did it out of revenge, and I know that was bad.
What was the original question, now?
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Oh, yeah: No, I never told her I "cheated" on her. Do you think I cheated, anyway? Is the definition of cheating that you have to have sex? Anyway, it feels like I cheated.
And it was only once.
2006-08-08 02:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by ♣Tascalcoán♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not the bf I have now. but in the past on a few others. yes, I did tell 1 & the other found out thru some1 else. I feel that if U Really do love some1 then U won't cheat on them, otherwise well...
2006-08-08 02:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have never cheated on my husband, but if u have cheated think about the situation and whether or not you should tell them. in some situations it is not the best option to tell them. if u could live with the guilt then the best option is probably not to say anything beacuse if you do it will probably only make matters worse. do what you feel is right.
2006-08-08 02:35:19 · answer #4 · answered by mkd20012001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never cheated on anyone that I've been with. Thought about it, but your conscious just messes with you in the end. Remember "what goes around comes around."
2006-08-08 02:32:36 · answer #5 · answered by hot_chocolat718 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to be a cheat - honesty is the best policy!
2006-08-08 02:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont believe in cheating if the is someone else then I would break up!
2006-08-08 02:31:42 · answer #7 · answered by Binky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but one time I did just to get rid of the guy. Oh i'm so BAD. Tssssssss
2006-08-08 02:31:29 · answer #8 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest...yeah i did cheated once on ma gurl..but i told her and she tleft me i thought that if i go out with two(witch is wrong)
i like it betta and get loved twice as i did..but trust me it never works..i learned froom ma lesson!
2006-08-08 02:34:46 · answer #9 · answered by sweetguy16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah once but only coz i knew he was gonna do it and i was right!!
2006-08-08 02:39:34 · answer #10 · answered by shivy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋