Am I a freak of nature because I'm 23 and still a virgin?

Answer 1

No you are not. I waited until I got married before I had sex. I was 21, it has been almost 3 years now and believe me I am so glad that I waited. So many people these days don't take that seriously and they sleep with whoever they want. But it is good to wait. Not only is it what God commanded, it also saves us from alot of trouble, worry, and heartache. If you wait until marriage, you don't have to worry about the person not caring for you and your needs, no worries about STDs, and chances are if you do get pregnant, it will be a happy,and wanted baby. Don't feel bad about your choice. You will always be proud of yourself for it and you will NEVER regret it! Good for you!

Answer 2

Don't be ashamed. Be glad you didn't give it up to some random person you probably didn't even like anyway. The fact that you've waited will help you when you actually do have intimate time with someone because I'm sure you've seen your friends do things that you haven't done. It's not like when you're a teenager that no one knows what the hell they're doing. You're educated now and less ignorant. I do recommend that you look and read up on anything genital and sexuality related. You should know all of your information before you even plan it. It's very important because I doubt you want a child or a sexually transmitted disease right now. =) USE PROTECTION!

Answer 3

no that's perfectly fine. there is nothing wrong with you at all. that just means you haven't found the right person to settle down with or that you are saving yourself for marraige. but no you are not a freak my cousin is about 35 and he's still a virgin so it's not uncommon to still be a virgin in your 20's or 30's. you will find that person to spend the rest of your life with and you will be very happy. keep your head up!!

Answer 4

If you're a freak of nature, then so are tens of thousands of Roman Catholic nuns. They certainly aren't freaks, so neither are you. Sex can be the most wonderful experience you'll ever have, but there's no precise time by which you must have it. Relax and enjoy yourself, and make men aware that you're interested. Someone will eventually come around who'll suit you just fine!

Answer 5

Nope...I just turned 23 as well...and still have my virginity....Although I could have easily lost it, in a heart-beat. I'm glad I chose to wait. My brother is younger and already married, with 2 kids, I'm glad not to be in his shoes. Save it for someone special, its a good thing.

Answer 6

Of course not. lol. Virgins are rare nowadays because teenagers are becoming more and more sexually active.....but I do not think you are a freak of nature. You've just got a trait many people lack in this day and age; self-control.

Answer 7

no.. you are not as you have the choice and you chose to be a virgin.. i'm 1 too, and i'm proud of it.. i don't think that it's right that we sleep around and there won't be a special bonding between you and your future husband.. do not give in to the social stress and pressure.. it's good to stay a virgin until you marry because you are protecting your own body and mind.. god bless..

Answer 8

being virgin dosen't mean one is a freak. It seems u r shy.also, if u r a vigin at 23 it's no big deal. u sud concentrate on ur life goals exept.sex will come in ur way when it's time will come.

Answer 9

You're not a freak of nature. You're a freak by choice.

Answer 10

No! you are an absolute goddess. I wish I would have had your stamina! You should talk to some of these 13 and 14 y/o pregnant girls, they could learn alot from you.