I recently broke up with my man. he became so busy that he did not have time for us anymore. i tried all i could to save us, but he just withdrew. i ended the relationship, but now i miss him so much. do i get back with him?
2006-08-08 01:48:52 · 21 answers · asked by uzzy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sometimes they get busy and you have to sacrifice and compromise. That happens in my relationship sometimes and we always seem to talk about it and work thru it. A relationship is hard work trying to keep it together you say you tried sometimes if you want the relationship u have to try harder and make it work. You also have to be understanding he might have wanted to be with you but maybe had to work,now if hes bust with his friends then that is something different and y'all need to talk and communicate.Talk to him and tell him you want to be with him and work out your problems and find a compromise. Hang in there
2006-08-08 02:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he want to get back with you? what impression does he give you? judging by how he acts, responds to you, you should be able to work out whether or not he is worth trying to get back with. Missing him is a natural part of having a void in your life, you would miss anyone if all of a sudden they disappeared from your life. Don't concentrate so much on these emotions but think of your future - how much time did you spend moping around because of him and how much time did you spend loving him? is it really worth it? cant you try and busy yourself and see what HE says? if you go running back then he might treat you like sh-
he should come running back to you. your relationship might be one-sided
2006-08-08 02:10:24 · answer #2 · answered by mojo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a really confusing thing but don't let your heart rule your head. If you broke up with him then there must have been a good reason. i suggest you have a good long chat together to explain points of view and feelings on relationship. If he can see the errors of his ways and you can work out together how to overcome them then only then would i suggest maybe letting your heart win.
good luck
2006-08-08 02:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you fiinshed it for a reason, and that reason wont change. You can never go back it wouldnt work.
Of course you are missing him, but it is a natural reaction. Make time with friends, go out, keep busy. Do what you did when you didnt know him.
2006-08-08 01:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, if you want to keep having the same thing happen over and over again. If he was that interested or not so afraid of a commitment he would find the time. Don't go back. Go forward.
2006-08-08 01:57:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love hurts and it will keep hurting. You broke up with him and if his commitments have not changed then he won't either. just give it time and see how you feel. You might find someone else soon and wonder why you ever thought of getting back with him... Good Luck
2006-08-08 02:05:37 · answer #6 · answered by toots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother if the same problem is still there? Is he willing to try to work it out with you? If he is and he realises that he just can't ignore you then yes you should try again. Otherwise, what is the point?
2006-08-08 01:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OFF YOUR PITY PARTY!!!!!!!!!!! you broke up with him cuz the sleazoid didn't have time for you. this seems it was a 1 sided relationship............if you have any self respect at all, you'll drop the idea, get gussied up and go find urself a real man.
2006-08-08 02:24:51 · answer #8 · answered by koleebear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the things that you didn't like are still the same and you go back you are not going to be happy and are just going to end up going around in circles.
2006-08-08 01:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by gonetotallymad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an ex is an ex for a reason and if you got back you would just get more of the same
2006-08-08 02:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by Barson 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋