help me please?

Question

my husband has recently open a bussiness and that a great thing.i stop my job for him which was paying me $600 A WEEK.SO THAT I CAN STAY AND MANAGE THE BUSSINESS.i was fine with it cause i always supported him in what ever he does,but lately if we get in an urgument he will throw treat at me like,he closing the bussiness.but for me i dont care.am the one suffering here.him closing that would be great for me,cause when friday come which is pay day am the only person who working and dont have a pay check.cause everything goes back in the bussiness.but i dont have a problem with that is's just that he is selfish.throwing that in my face.and the thing is he think he is doing me a favor and i suppose to be happy .he dont give me a dollar just enough to wah the cloths.if we are goin out he trow remark u bringing ya money.see when i married him it was out of love.if it was his money i would of dump him long ago.and this is what upset me .am to the shop everyday all day and he think am cheat

Answer 1

I think that I can understand what you are asking. If your Husband is throwing threats at you about this new business that he has opened, you should let him know that the reason why you are there is for him, (it most certainly isn't for the money)!!!! But if he has a problem with the way that you do things, then he can go ahead and close up shop, It's not like you are making any money anyway! You should just go back to your old job! If he can not appreciate the help that you are giving him, and realize that by you doing this for him you are the one that is getting the short end of the stick! (No money, All of the stress & aggravations that you are not only getting from the bussiness, but also from him as well)!!!!

Answer 2

Woman what is wrong with you,set the record straight,husband or no husband,when you put in your time,you get a paycheck or tell him to get someone else.It is fine to help with the business but you deserve your share of the rewards as well.Have a serious heart to heart talk with him and remind him,you will have to pay someone,do you want it to be me or someone else,as far as his little threats and ultimatoms,tell him to stick them up his butt,you are a person to and just because he has title of husband it does not give him ownership,take back you life while you can and hold your ground girl,this isnt just a mans world anymore.If I were you I would get back my old job or a new one and tell him I will support you from the sidelines but I have a life too

Answer 3

Go to him and be very calm, tell him I have tried to do everything for you and you have treated me like dirt, now I am going back to my old job where I was well paid. You will have to hire someone to do what I have been doing for nothing. Possibly if he thinks you will do that he will open his eyes. If not then you do need to go back to your job if it's available or get a different one. Do you think
your marriage can survive this kind of treatment without bitterness taking over? You deserve better!

Answer 4

U need to find ur new job and start your new life. There is no use in wasting your dreams and your time for nothing. I agree that love is greater than anything but its mere waste if its not reciprocated. Life is short dear ,so make the best use of it and find peace and content Never let men power you and ill-treat you.

Answer 5

This is a typical intimate relationships and business don't mix. This is why some companies have polices againt hiring spouses in the same company, its important to leave the business to the business and your personal life at home.

Answer 6

Go back to your old job or get a new one. Every business person allows something for them as a salary. Tell him its not worth ruining your relationship and let the chips fall where they may.

Answer 7

Your husband is a controlling, cruel, ungrateful asshole, tell him to shape up or ship out, either he gives you a decent salary, at least what you were making before, and most importantly starts treating you with, at least RESPECT, or quit his business and if necessary quit him, I'm sure you can do better than this *** wipe.

Answer 8

be cool generally men have igo that is the same thing with your husband.don't get upset with his behaviour,you just keep smiling face when he scolds you that makes him cool you tell him about the work you did when he is in nice mood that he may recognise you.
as it is well known women have patience than men prove it, he may be stress as a wife you should relax him.
All The Best.

Answer 9

Your hubby cant have you working without pay
Then if he treats you bad, kick his butt and take over the business

Answer 10

if it were me in that situation, i would go back to my other job, then maybe he will realize how much he really needed you there and not take you for granted anymore