What do you do when you love someone and have been with them a along time but you are sexually unfulfilled? Everything else is good except that area and you have tried communicating about it but it just not a match? Should on ejust expeect to make certain concessions even if it makes you feel like you're missing something in life?
2006-08-08 01:18:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What if the physical attraction has deminsished due to phsycial changes?
2006-08-08 02:48:28 · update #1
Go to sex therapy. Don't just throw the relationship out the window. If that is the only area that needs work then just repair it.
2006-08-08 01:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by Jersey Girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If everything else is good and this is the only problem then it is definetly worth working on,if you are feeling sexually unfullfilled than more than likely your partner is to,did you think about that,because if your partner was more fullfilled then it would only reflect good on how it is for you as well.I had this exact problem with my husband and I asked myself for over a year,can I just live with it or what,no way,so one night I just kinda set the mood and when we went to bed I asked him what I could do for him,which was simple,but at the same time I told him what he could do for me,not so simple,now when we make love he knows what to expect and what it is that I need in order for us both to have enjoyable sex.I strongly suggest you do the same,if it is not good for one of you,its really not that good for the other one either,take the extra effort and it will all fall into place after that and if it doesnt then it is just not meant to be
2006-08-08 08:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by TAMMY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, are you married? if so try and work it out much as possible and continue to talk about to sort the matters out because things are going to get worse before they get better, then if you aren't married then again try to talk it out as much as you can and if that does.t get you anywhere then i suggest that you move on and find something that will help you in that area, BUT if you get some one the side RAP IT UP and continue on. Me personally: i think they might be getting it from else where!!
2006-08-08 08:30:22 · answer #3 · answered by NEO B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are allowing sex to over-power every other thing that is between the two of you, then I truly feel sorry for you! Making love with your spouse is a privilege not a necessity! After being together for a long period of time, you should already know this!!!!
2006-08-08 10:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on homey.
Secual gratification is huge and shouldnt be tossed away. Its an important aspect of a strong relationship.
2006-08-08 08:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by omsuperhoops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone now. Despite what people think sexual compatability is necessary for a successful relationship. If it's not working now it probably won't work later. If you stay you will end up cheating on her to satisfy your needs.
2006-08-08 09:50:47 · answer #6 · answered by Tiredofbrainlessmorons 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're not missing anything. Count the blessings for what you DO have which is more than a lot of people.
2006-08-08 08:22:23 · answer #7 · answered by Ray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love her truely u have to decrease her weekness in that area...... try to find a suitable way without hurting her feeling.
2006-08-08 08:22:55 · answer #8 · answered by semsem T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spice it up a little
if that doesn't work, split
2006-08-08 08:24:32 · answer #9 · answered by eternity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEAL WITH IT AND TRY OTHER WAYS... IF YOUR MARRIED FIND A WAY , IF NOT MOVE ON..
2006-08-08 08:22:51 · answer #10 · answered by MARY B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋