Been married for 25 years, still love each other but need spice.
2006-08-08 01:17:00 · 15 answers · asked by deborah_wood2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-08-08 01:19:58 · answer #1 · answered by timestamps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your marriage has been basic for 25 years then you need to get right down dirty with it and juice it up a little, bit by bit. I don't know how old you are but if you can do the things the young ones can do then do it or you my have did everything in the book but me the way that i am i am adventurous i love to try new things just get curious and start doing things that he have not see you do or experienced.
2006-08-08 01:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by NEO B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
25 years to know and to hear marriage for that length of time is truly wonderful. I know that for the two of you things can get pretty same old same old and with such a busy lifestyle each day can get repetitive. Few ideas: Here's an example: Ice cream comes in several different flavors -yet you only like one specific and certain one. Variations of intimacy is a good idea, different positions, or surprise your husband by purchasing sexy lingerie at the store and surprising him that night. These type of things def. will keep the flame burning. As busy as you may be-lovemaking is a top priority in marriage.
2006-08-08 01:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The spice being...
You need a 3 some this will spice things up.
2006-08-08 01:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by jalmanny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try new things in the bedroom.
Arrange for a surprise vacation.
Try new romantic ideas such as leave little cards or love notes tucked away for your partner here and there.
Have a night out, but go for something you've never done.
Hope this helps you! Take care and best wishes for a marriage that hits the 50 year mark.
2006-08-08 01:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 25 years things have fallen into a pattern so make things different, act out your fantasies, try rubs , ginger, toys, clothing play acting, tie him up , get him to tie you up, spanking, you be a slave for the weekend and the next weekend he is your slave
go out to a different restaurant once a week, buy different clothes, go sailing, make love outside, in a car
email me if you want more graphic ideas
2006-08-08 01:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by brinlarrr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress sexy talk dirty have sex some where new the thrill of getting caught is a big turn on or film your sex that's fun to watch together
2006-08-08 01:21:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask each other your deepeset darkest fantasy... or do somehting you have never ever done but so wanted to do...
2006-08-08 01:22:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a boyfriend
2006-08-08 01:21:02 · answer #9 · answered by roscoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have faith on each other and try to do things together. combined efforts.
2006-08-08 01:21:09 · answer #10 · answered by progyas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MORE sex will always save your marriage.
be opened minded about anything he wants to try just be safe.....
2006-08-08 01:22:05 · answer #11 · answered by SCRUFFY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋