I was best friends with a girl all through out high school until we were about 19. We went through everything together. We could talk about anything and were so comfortable with each other. Then she met a girl who she wanted to be just like. so she changed everything about herself. her looks her personality, everything. Then they started shop lifting every where. especially in the shopping centre where i work even the same store. they were stealing things and then selling them at the uni. She hardly spoke to me through my complicated pragnancy but did visit me when my son was born prematurly, but my partner told her to stay away. she did get cought for her stealing. And according to other people she has changed back to her old self again. It has been over 3 years. I know she is now going through a hard time and so am i with a emotionally abusive partner. i have no friends and still miss her. No1 will approve if i do ever talk to her again. plus she seems upset with me any way.
2006-08-08 01:13:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Today is a new day. Forgive & forget! Something is a good thing to say & most always a good thing to do. Just call her , do not bring up the pass. Tell her you have been thinking of her & miss her. Just wanted her to know that. It will make you feal better. No telling where that call may take you!
Good Luck!
2006-08-08 01:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by TT Bomb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really too bad to lose friends. It is very hard and emotional. But, these things happen all the time. It is mainly because people's personalities change. It sounds like your friend had major problems before, and she never even told you...or possibly that she never told anyone. I've had friends like that before in the past. They were very good and kind and then all of a sudden, they change into someone else and you have no idea where the heck it came from. Unfortunately, you are better off with out her. At least I think so. If she is stealing from stores, it is not a good idea to be around her. Because she could steal something, give the item to you, and then you can get into trouble for having a stolen item. Then you would have to go to court, etc. And you don't need that. You are way better off without her. If none of the comments work for you, I highly recommend that you go and see a counselor that can help you.
2006-08-08 10:38:43 · answer #2 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you should forget the past and start all over with her again. But be prepared the feeling of the friendship will be totally different coz you have been separated for about 3 years and it is not a short time. Give her a call if you have her number or email her. Dun worry about what others say, do what you think is correct for you and not others. Seriously I believe you should take the initative to start the ball rolling by apologising to her. If you can succeed in the first move, it is considered a great start.
All the best to you
2006-08-08 08:35:25 · answer #3 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking about her!!!
2006-08-08 08:19:34 · answer #4 · answered by Coolgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋