What is wrong with a person who no matter what they do legally to support their family they fail?ie.They can't hold onto a legitimate job, can't start their own legitimate business.What's wrong with a person who has the initiative and drive, to go back to College then has all sorts of obstacles that are not of their own doing , but they continue to persevere, however they still lack less than 20 hours from obtaining a Bachelor's degree ,and finally because they are not credit worthy they cannot get funds to continue their education, so in the end they can't complete the College Degree program. Yet , if they engage in criminal activity they seem to prosper beyond measure, and gain fiancially and economically, but as soon they try to use the money for a legitimate,positive purpose,or goal , they again fail.Are they just natural born criminals? or just spiritual and societal failures ie....LOSERS, and if so how can they stop being LOSERS? These people are a success at being Failures.
2006-08-08 00:41:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I believe that God has a plan for each and everyone of us. What the individual plan is is up to that person to figure out. Maybe it is a test to seee if they will turn to being a criminal .I would suggest that if you are a believer pray alittle harder have friends and family pray for you never give up on the prayer and I feel that things will have to change. I also believe that we are getting very close to the last days before Christs return and the testing could become very hard and intense but I also believe that Christ is walking us through it all.
2006-08-08 01:07:32 · answer #1 · answered by wolfy1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about what happens to you in life, ITS HOW YOU DEAL WITH IT. Some of the most special, loving people I've had the pleasure of meeting screwed up everything, even though they HAD NOTHING BUT GOOD INTENTIONS! Does this make them any less considerate? As you stated ,"NO MATTER WHAT THEY DO" implies they've tried VERY hard to live up to expectations.
Obviously, the way you describe college, your heart is too busy trying to live up to others expectations that you aren't finding meaning in education. Use your down time to start a solid foundation in life :eat healthy, exercise, show the ones you love HOW MUCH YOU CARE, take a break from the un-ending monotony that has you in this position to begin with.
As far as illegal endeavors, if you look at Rockefeller or pretty much anyone of true wealth, they didn't exactly do it legally and they were extremely unhappy despite their wealth...
The word "loser" implies you see life as a game. Their are no winners and no losers, just people living. If you see your life as a means to and end you've already "lost". The meaning is the journey.
2006-08-08 00:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jo C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they should stop thinking of criminal activity as being successful. given time and hard work they will be successful. i think there are a lot of other issues that need to be addressed before this is even looked at.
2006-08-08 00:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEEK GOD'S PLAN for you. If you are not a believer, better believe now and everything will be easy or at least a HOPE is always there. Thanks.
2006-08-08 00:51:20 · answer #4 · answered by JUN R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not the person, it's the system they are trying to thrive within
2006-08-08 00:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by Jen J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they have ADD
2006-08-08 00:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋