We started out as friends but I always regarded him as a soul mate. Our friendship developed into something more while he was still married, but then I moved away and it all ended. I think about him alot and wonder where he is and what he is doing and although I know we are both married ( in his case re-married) to other people I really miss the strong friendship we had - I could talk to him about anything. Am I being a fool to want to get in touch?
2006-08-08 00:19:53 · 27 answers · asked by savannahsecret 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
do you want you life to be like i movie, or like life?
2006-08-08 00:26:11 · answer #1 · answered by ahmo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go for it. It sucks to live life with any regrets. Obviously if the love between you and your husband is strong enough, you wouldn't even be thinking about this guy. But if things were to develop, don't make an *** of the guy you're married to now. End it with him before you start anything new. This is why people shouldn't rush into marriage or marry because they feel they're getting to old and they don't want to let it pass them by.
2006-08-08 07:28:09 · answer #2 · answered by Elliot Ness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abslolutely you are not a fool,friendships like these are very hard to find,if your motives are right in just wanting to contact him as a friend then I sure would,if you are having problems in your own relationship however,then I would be a little more cautious,you could find yourself back in the arms of your old flame
2006-08-08 07:25:48 · answer #3 · answered by TAMMY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are being a fool leave well alone unless you want to ruin your marriage think of the hurt you will cause to your husband if you want this person more than your husband then end your marriage first you wont just be able to have a friendship
2006-08-08 07:32:17 · answer #4 · answered by blakeman6830 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing foolish about wanting to be in touch. Being the fool is committing the act. Try your best to fight it, it could end up in so much heartache when non was intended.
I hope you can fight it - good luck
2006-08-08 07:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, get in touch. Its okay if you are totally amoral and don't care about your marriage.
Miss his friendship? That is total crap you are telling yourself, hun. What you miss is so much more. Just asking this and thinking about contacting him is so selfish. Leave him and his wife alone.
2006-08-08 07:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with being FRIENDS... Only trouble likely, is if the old feelings resurface and you go from friends to more...
Be careful, and make sure that your respective partners are aware of the contact and that nothing is likely to happen again...
2006-08-08 07:23:45 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u r being a total fool.do u really think u can b just friends again?don't put Ur marriage and his into jeopardy.let things be.
2006-08-08 07:32:36 · answer #8 · answered by archie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Acting on past regrets can mushroom into even larger regrets down the road. Let it go, and be happy with what you have.
2006-08-08 07:23:27 · answer #9 · answered by gadjitfreek 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. You both are married...How would you feel if your husbands exgirlfriend showed up at your door and wanted to talk.
2006-08-08 07:23:44 · answer #10 · answered by JOEYSMOM2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! Unless you want to ruin your own marriage!
Really don't go there you wont be able to stop your feelings flooding back!
2006-08-08 07:22:33 · answer #11 · answered by carly s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋