Am i straight?

Question

I feel as i have been gay for as long as i can remember, but lately women have been turning me on. I actually feel i could be more into girls than guys. But here's the problem i've come out to everyone, asked them to be accepting and have had many boyfriends. I'm scared now that if i'm straight, all the problems i went thru for years was for nothing and then still face my parents and they'll start saying how they were right about me being confused. I still find guys attractive but they don't give me that burning passion that woman do for me.

Answer 1

you might just be confused but you might just be bisexual meaning you enjoy company of both sexes

Answer 2

Well, thats messed up. Heres my opinion. Most straight women arent gonna be down with having sex with a man who has been with several other men, from my experience with striaght women, they think its #1 gross, or #2 not safe. If you decide your bisexual, your still gonna have that problem, but I suppose there will be some bisexual women that are ok with it. As far as your parents are concerned, I dont think that it matters what they say does it? You didnt care when you came out to them did you? And as far as being straight, I dont think that having been gay for as long as you can remember can just change, your at least Bi.

Answer 3

Don't jump to any conclusions. Don't act too fast. Maybe that's why you came out to everyone before you were sure. Date a woman or two, see how it goes. If you end up bisexual, or straight, or go back to gay, you will be what you truly are, but sometimes it takes some sorting out.

Answer 4

Wow your confused, hey but I won't lie yesterday the wierdest thing happened. I was looking a guys like "Damn hes cute" but I know if I close my eyes I cant picture my future with a dude. I am 100% Lesbian. Try this.. Close your eyes and see where and how yopu'd like to spendyour future with . Eliminate all opinions from others and only soak in your own thoughts.

You will be suprised.

Answer 5

If your parents have excepted you as gay, they will accept you as being with a woman. I hope this is not just lust on your part . Is it just one girl doing this all ? or is it the whole female gender ? Choose wisely, and remember if u do have kids, they'd want a loving dad and not someone who sleeps around.

Answer 6

I know it's been said over and over. But I think that you are realizing that your bisexual. Sexual orientation is like a spectrum. At right end, you've got extremely homosexual and at the left you got extremely heterosexual and then all these places in between. You are just 2 steps from the middle to the left....

Answer 7

I think u were confused,but if u are fully turn on by women thats a start..... even though i live by the words to each his own.

Answer 8

Sounds to me like you are bisexual. Some guys try to force themselves to be straight -- when it fails, they try to force themselves to be gay.

Sounds to me like you might like both.

Don't worry about other people. Be who you are.

I'm gay, the idea of burning passion for anything female -- well, the one time I had sex with a female when I was in my teens it made me so sick to force myself to do it that I threw up. Thanks, but no thanks. You can keep the burning passion -- but for goodness sake, be happy with who you are -- whoever that is.

Peace,

Reyn
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Answer 9

you might just be going threw a confusing time. if you feel comfortable try 'being' with a girl and see how you feel after wards you might just be feeling experimental or be bi or even be completely over the hill.

Answer 10

Your hidden bixesual surfaced, now enjoy the true self.