I seem to find it hard to peak. Don't get me wrong- I enjoy the whole experience of intercourse but just dont seem to get there.
2006-08-07 22:42:29 · 23 answers · asked by nanita 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It's really difficult to reach orgasm during intercourse. The penis just does not hit the spot. You could always use a small vibrator on the clitoris if you find a position that would be comfortable doing this.
The best way to reach orgasm is through masturbation. Find out what pleases you and where and transfer this knowledge to your partner.
Good luck.
2006-08-07 23:19:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different. My ex couldn't give me an orgasm, he just was so selfish he thought about himself.
However when you have an orgasm it is some kind of Ecstasy - you feel very excited and your body shaking. You can feel 3 contractions in your vagina - pleasant :)
2006-08-08 06:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by Paulina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell when it comes since I was 4 or 5 years old (in kindergarten). Really!
Erm..I think maybe you can try do it by yourself first!!
Try tonight..and don't stop untill you feel " ahhhhhh~~~and feeling like slowing down)
Come on . Believe me! I'm only 15 and still a virgin..But I have big " O." every day!!!!!
Good luck to you =)
2006-08-08 06:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should masturbate yourself.
Stimulate your clitoris til you orgasm, then you will be able to recognise the signs and feelings and ask your partner to change what he/she is doing so that you can have an orgasm.
Good luck. Don't worry about it so much and it will happen more easily.
2006-08-08 09:52:11 · answer #4 · answered by Trish D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will ask you the question, does your partner perform stimulation of your clitoris? if not there is only 20% chance (80% of female does not reach orgasm by penile-vaginal intercourse) that you will have orgasm, if you need advice how to get orgasm feel free to ask :)
2006-08-08 05:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by mrangelosd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know when your about to orgasm, normally by your legs going all shakey, and you feel tingley all over,and then it calms down once you have finished intercourse.
2006-08-08 07:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by emma w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your whole body feels like it's about to... well you can't really explain the feeling, but believe me, when it happens you will definately know about it.
Maybe a little buzzing bunny would help if you know what I mean?
2006-08-08 05:53:20 · answer #7 · answered by lou archer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and let your mind just be focused on the sex and you will get there.It is a feeling of sheer utter pleasure .If your in London give me a shout i will share one with you..
2006-08-08 06:20:21 · answer #8 · answered by pig m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your partner, or just let go and stop thinking too much. You will find what makes it happen and get your partners to touch the places how you both like. Don't worry
2006-08-08 05:48:41 · answer #9 · answered by thecharleslloyd 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
relax if your expecting it to happen it wont just chill out let your husband/boyfriend explore your body if in doubd try and get to no your body you only no wot u need try after a bath or shower wen your relaxed and ready for bed
2006-08-08 05:52:36 · answer #10 · answered by funky chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋