and i try to be nice and talk to her but she always makes an argument with me i i end up hating my self for having to be around her everyday but i don`t know what to say to her cuz she thinks i like her??
2006-08-07 21:47:07 · 19 answers · asked by nadia_539 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Um girl I had that same problem. First of all stop calling it your
"FRIEND:" cause its not. Next thing tell that person you dont like them and save you and them a whole lot of energy and nerves. You need to downgrade them from a friend to an associate. Speak when you see them but dont engage in conversation,keep walking. They'll see that your serious after a couple of days.Them the kind of people you only talk to when your bored.
2006-08-07 21:56:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi there you seem to be in a right state ,so why do you have to be around her everyday ?? if she was youre sister then thats something else but even then you still have the right to have some distance ,now if this is someone that is in youre group of friends then you still have the right to get some pece and for what youre saying im sorry but there is noway that i would be putting up with her starting arguements and letting her away with it ,if i was you i would be telling her a few home truths about the arguements and tell her to not even think about starting the next time she does start (if you get what i mean ) im not saying start a fight or arguement but just stick up for youreself and you have every right to that good luck and you take care x
2006-08-08 04:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time she starts an arguement, say something like, "Why do we have to have these arguements practically every day? You know what? We don't. We either need to agree to disagree or just stop dragging ourselves through this nonsense because it's become more fighting than friendship. What do you say?"
Lays it out nicely, let's the other person know where you stand and also gives them a choice as well as gives them an opening to discuss the problem with you. It also shows the other person if they can't deal, then you shouldn't HAVE TO deal with them and won't any longer.
Good luck! :)
2006-08-08 04:53:51 · answer #3 · answered by this_isridiculous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you srew her over if she gets on your nerve. that'll teach her..
I have this classmate of mine. She's super LOUD, she gets on everyones nerves, shes more of a man cause she's like 6feet tall and i'm only 5ft4... she's overbearing, competitive, shouts too much, walks ugly but thinks she's super attractive, she likes to whack people especially me and my other guy classmate (male student nurse in a class with girls)) and I HAVE TO SEE HER EVERYDAY..
that day I burped from about 10feet away and she came around and smacked me across the head... I told her to shut up and shoved her like how boys shove each other when fighting and gave her a long list of insults on how bad she was and how noone likes her.. And she has shut up since..
Go and pour out your true feelings, smack her up abit if you have to.. Insults and sarcastic remarks work well with this kind of people... you know you wanna do it.. Its no point having this kind of friend... Surely she can't be your ONLY friend...
2006-08-08 05:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by Mirza H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh just tell her the truth... if u cant stand her then do sth about it or ull be blaming urself for a long time... or maybe u should start thinking about why she's ur "friend", what things u have in common and so... also maybe she's a person who is pasive- aggressive or... whatever... if i don't like a person i tell directly... most of the times i have good results...
2006-08-08 04:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see her everyday but do you have to engage her in conversation? Say hello, be courteous then find someone else to talk to. IF you exclude her, then she will soon get the message.
2006-08-08 04:50:32 · answer #6 · answered by sukditup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the next time she starts an argument put your head down and sway it back & fourth and then look her in the eyes, and just walk away and u'll end up really liking urself and leave her speechless...
2006-08-08 05:07:23 · answer #7 · answered by margaret c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She thinks you like her, therefore she thinks she can do anything to you, cause you won't be upset. Make her understand you don't like her, in this case there are only two ways: one:she won't be around, or two:she will improve her attitude.
2006-08-08 04:53:36 · answer #8 · answered by Gersin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well be genuine and tell her the same...why do you want to be in her good books when you really dont like her and she puts you off everyday.....just get her out of your way and be happy!!
2006-08-08 04:50:04 · answer #9 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's your lover,(just kidding). Well, if you're really annoyed with this friend of yours, just ignore her. Eventually she'll get the picture. (I hope)
2006-08-08 04:53:28 · answer #10 · answered by FastMoments 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋