I mean,we tend to like or love people with tastes similar to our own, we agree with people who share our opinions...does that mean we are narcissistic?
Would like to know what you all think..
2006-08-07 21:45:52 · 18 answers · asked by Emma Woodhouse 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
you must first love yourself before you can love anyone else.
2006-08-07 22:14:04 · answer #1 · answered by JAYNE C 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Narcissistic people as well as being totally wrapped up in themselves see themselves as a victim, they will use anyone or anything to get what they want. It is never their fault. Usually compulsive liars with a very vivid imagination. So I would say no, most people thankfully are not narcissistic, they simply know what they do and don't like
2006-08-07 21:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by ges21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is too soon to say whether this is actually 'love'.....I get on very well with myself, we have a lot of mutual interests and spend a lot of time together. When I saw myself in the mirror this morning I must say I was very attracted to myself, but is this love or lust? Confession time.... I admit last night I made passionate love to myself, but we had both been drinking heavily, so it may have been one of those one night stand things, a moment of foolishness? It may mean nothing, but today I can't stop thinking about myself, so who knows....this time it might be for real?
2006-08-07 22:07:08 · answer #3 · answered by Aaran Aardvark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All we do or love is just an protection against incomprehensible and unpredictable forces that rule our world.Anyone with the same protections will support our protections (shields) and will be treated as a friend, lover, mate,chum.
2006-08-07 22:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by oceangleam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I belive that opossites atract.
I have a co-worker who is so damn annoying you wouldn't belive! I realized I have a crush on him what of course made me even more furious, and now I am totaly confused:)
I met loads of people and as long as I can be with them and have something to talk about ( even argue about) it doesn't really matter if they are similar to me.
2006-08-07 22:07:42 · answer #5 · answered by ywe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't say that just because we like people who are similar to us we are in love with ourselves. It's just second nature. I'm definitely not in love with myself...there are a lot of things I don't like about me actually...
2006-08-07 21:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to accept your own existence, to love yourself, your strengths and your flaws, before you can even begin to appreciate others in the same way.
It's healthy to love yourself, as long as you don't go too far and start believing in your own mythology.
2006-08-07 23:49:57 · answer #7 · answered by fiat_knox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!
2006-08-07 21:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by SikSonic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really.I like other people a lot.However ,I also do like myself.So You may say I like others and when see myself in their shadow ,I also start liking myself.
2006-08-07 22:05:16 · answer #9 · answered by khan a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm learning to, but it's been hard! Every one should love, or at least learn to love themselves!
2006-08-07 21:52:14 · answer #10 · answered by Emma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-08-07 21:49:35 · answer #11 · answered by Leo H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋