she is my former gf, we broke up several months ago,she said I was not considerate.later,I started my second love,then I found my former gf is a good girl, so I returned to find her.and ,she kissed my face that night,that is to say she still loved me.so I decided to let her be happy forever,and I do it until now. However,recently I found an article writed by her on the internet,it said that she has a close guy in NYC,and they promised going out for a tour some day. I feel like a fool. so what should I do now? plz give me some suggestions!
2006-08-07 21:37:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Firstly, ask her about it. Just like boys, teen girls also like to brag about their BFs, like how he looks, how trendy he is, how rich he is, etc.
Then, if she admitted their relationship, confront her if she still likes you. If she chooses you, then ask her to break that relationship (she will, if she loves you).
Now, if she says that she has no relationships with other guys, then it's fair to accept her side and give her the benefit of the doubt. Trust her about that.
2006-08-07 21:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you speak to her about your concerns, though I am not sure what you mean by you decided to let her be happy forever, you can only make decisions for yourself not others to do so is a little controling dont you think.
2006-08-07 21:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if I were you I'd break it off with her.
It sounds like this girl likes to have you around as a safety net. In case her affairs don't work out with others, she can always run back to you, her runner-up.
Well, you shouldn't be anyone's runner-up, you should be their one and only as you thought you were. So it's time to find yourself a stable girl who knows what she wants out of life and wants to spend that life with you.
Good luck! :)
2006-08-07 21:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by this_isridiculous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, the onyl thing you can do is to go talk talk to her and clear things up. Whatever else we say is not as good as hearing from her own mouth.
2006-08-07 22:04:56 · answer #4 · answered by choy_daniel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, because of the many mistakes in your paragraph....it was hard to understand exactly what you are saying....I'm guessing you're saying she's playin u, right? if that's the case...the answer is obvious, get rid of her and find someone else.....point blank.
2006-08-07 21:45:12 · answer #5 · answered by £i£-ßrAt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her about it. that is the only way.
2006-08-07 21:45:57 · answer #6 · answered by Chaos_angel0 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋