most of my life i have been the quite one who does`nt talk much but i can`t find a way to make me more confident in talking to men.
2006-08-07 21:10:12 · 13 answers · asked by nadia_539 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Practice, just make yourself talk to people that you don't know. Everyone is afraid of rejection, and it happens to everyone eventually, but face your fear and talk to them anyways. After a little practice it gets so easy. By the way, if you're a girl, guys like it when you come talk to us, so we don't always have to do all the work, haha. Good luck!
2006-08-07 21:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by staindness 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well I can relate, I too have been shy all my life. But in recent years I became more outgoing, I think one of the reasons for this is started taking paxil, I was diagnosed with social anxiety disorder, basically a fear of social situations. And fear of rejection is part of this disorder. It doesn't at all mean your crazy because that's what I used to think, but the medication really helped and life became a lot easier and a lot more fun after I started taking it. This is also something that may go away with time, I don't know how old you are but it is possible you may come out of your shell in time. Good luck!
2006-08-07 22:20:53 · answer #2 · answered by The Prez. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First u try to see yourself in naked, In a separate room
then here the talk that others speak
Then try to talk with others frequently
then u will lose some shy bit
2006-08-07 21:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by alti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all stop thinking that u r shy......... u r perfect.......while talking to other dont feel ur self inferior, the person u r talking to or dealing with is just like u, so be confident and, increase ur knowladge this will give u confidence.......think that in any case u have to face the world so why don't confidently.......?
2006-08-07 21:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by rani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick me as ur best answer please!
im shy too and i was gonna ask the same question
but i used to not be shy til i moved
i guess just meet friends who aren't shy and maby gets some tips from them itworks
oh also weed and speed makes u talk a lot. like a LOT!
belive me my friend took a little speed and she started talkin to her crush w/o gettin nervous at all!
2006-08-08 07:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men find a girl who is shy sexy, find a guy u like see if u can open up to him slowly ,dont expect to go from shy girl to party in a snap it takes time if u need talk more here is my e-mail
reymysterioh@yahoo.com
2006-08-07 21:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by H.B.K. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try it. You will feel uncomfortable for the first while doing it, but the only way to do it is try.
think of it as trying new kinds of food. only way to tell if you like it is to try it.
you need to try to get yourself thinking that theres no downside to the situation. No reason to be shy. If he doesnt like you, then he doesnt like you. Oh well. Not like hes gonna kill your dog or anything because of it.
2006-08-07 21:17:06 · answer #7 · answered by Kyle M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take acting classes i use to be shy and now i am more social and outgoing i just dont care what people think.
2006-08-08 03:29:25 · answer #8 · answered by dramaqueen108 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop caring what people might think of you. if they dislike you for what you have to say then they're not worth talking to anyway
2006-08-07 21:44:12 · answer #9 · answered by justwondering 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing ,not perfect oh,i will be content with my wild outlandish ways
2006-08-07 21:15:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋