Since i was in the SIXTH GRADE ive had a size D bust and its recently become a serious isue i cant walk down the hall at school with out being grabed or called decusting things even my guy friends grab at me and some leave brusis the administation dosnt care. what can i do HELP PLEASE i cant take it anymore i'm seriously tierd of it and dont know what to do
2006-08-07 21:09:30 · 18 answers · asked by tini one 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
oh my gosh
that is so terrible
do your parents know???
okay well there are MANY INFINITE solutions here,
do specific guys do it to you all the time???
if it truely bothers you
you can sue them.
you can kick their asses too.
that one works.
but i would be firm and strong and tell them to just pisses off.
or if they are doing it infornt of a group of people like at school then yell really loud
"stop grabbing my boobs!!!!!!!!!"
they will probably stop.
if that dosent work then puch them in the nuts or grab their nuts.
but they need to seriously stop.
2006-08-08 01:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
How old are you now?
If you are over 18, you might want to see a doctor and consider breast reduction surgery, if they really bother you that much. In some places, medical insurance even covers such a surgery.
No one deserves to be harrassed or grabbed. That is simply criminal behavior. However, if you have asked for adult help (principal, teachers, counselor, parent) and no one has been able to help you, in order to just keep people from touching you, think about what you wear. As unfair as it may seem for you to have to change YOUR behaviour (when it should be the idiot guys who have to), if you often wear tops that show off your chest, you may be sending a message to guys that you don't really want to send.
2006-08-07 21:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by P-nuts and Hair-dos 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know im not a girl but i hope this will help at least...
1)Tell your parents (i assume youre still a minor)
2)go to the administation again and threaten lawsuit if nothing changes
3)If nothing changes sue the school and the township for letting sexual harassment go on unpunnished (whatever its called in legal terms).
No one has any right to put their hands on you if you dont want them to... you shouldnt let this go on any longer because they have no right hurting you. Good luck with everything.
2006-08-07 21:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by photoguy22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Maury, Oprah, or some other talk show hoast and tell them your story, maybe they can give you a free breast reduction. If not the only thing I can tell you is to save up and get a breast reduction to the desired size you want. You could even call the local news paper and get a camphain sorta thing started to help to raise money and draw attention to the situation if your not to shy.
2006-08-07 21:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mom about it. That is really mean of them to do that. Tell them to stop and if they continue to do it then get serious with your counselor and tell them that you feel uncomfortable and like your being assualted (if you feel like your being assaulted that is) If they still dont listen take it up with the principal or the PTA, they can and should make a differenece. If that still doesnt work call a teen hotline or somehing
2006-08-07 21:17:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure why people are recommending breast reduction. You should not have to change for anyone. The behaviour you have to put up with is appaulling and if your school won't do anything about it, threaten legal action. This is sexual harrassment and you do not need to put up with it. Just because you have big boobs, doesn't give anyone the right to touch you inappropriately. Good luck with whatever you decide to do.
2006-08-07 21:38:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your school should have an anti-discrimination and anti-harrassment officer. Go to your teacher and ask to see them.
If this doesn't help, get in touch with the education board in your state. If that doesn't work, go to the police.
I really hope this helps. Harassment like this is never fun. Good luck!
2006-08-07 21:16:12 · answer #7 · answered by xian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sue the damn boys n the damn skool administration..... how can they do it.... or whenever anyone trys to grab u.... smack em down.... n theres no need to b worried... with passing time u will be b'ful n ur figure will b gud... no need to go for any kinda reduction.... just keep urself fit by having exercise n drinking a lots of fluids... Take care
2006-08-07 21:52:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not right... start by threatening sexual harassment suits against the "grabbers" that should stop them quick.
If you are gutsy - start grabbing butts and balls.... but that could probably get you into trouble, so maybe just skip that one.
Be proud of your body!
2006-08-07 21:15:00 · answer #9 · answered by Skiingred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thers exercises for firming each of ur body part, try to find a gym trainer or magazine to find those exercises, for max. u can get a size c from d! n omg dun let them do tht again hit them! kick their balls as hard as u can its fun mwahaha lol if u dun want to do tht, find some of ur girlfriends to help u with im sure theres ppl willin to help u
2006-08-07 21:46:20 · answer #10 · answered by mion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋