is the first rule for lesbian/gay to not go out with a straight or bi person cause they are just using you for a good time.
2006-08-07 21:06:02 · 23 answers · asked by HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
yes......
2006-08-07 21:08:45 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Cutie Emily♥ 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It depends on what you are looking for , some people enjoy the chase and the capture of straight men and women . If that is what you want then you it may be the thrill of the chase that they want . But the general rule is don't go out with straight or bi people because they will not commit to relationship with you .
2006-08-08 09:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean your gender preference protects you from being used? Really, your preference for the same sex protects you from being use by those who preference is the same, the opposite, or both? Every time you start a relationship you have that risk no matter what gender preference the other person has.
It may be the first rule, but it isn't a good rule nor a truthful rule.
2006-08-08 04:14:31 · answer #3 · answered by J. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't mind using anyone. Even if he is bi or think he is straight. (I say think he is straight, because why would a straight guy want to go out with a gay guy?)
2006-08-08 04:31:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with that if you're both looking for the same thing. This rule only need apply if the person involved is seeking a relationship.
2006-08-08 12:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's the first rule for 1/3 of the lesbian population. 2/3's do have sexual experiences with men, even if not many, or with bisexuals.
2006-08-08 10:48:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, a straight person wouldn't date a gay person in the first place, but the fact that someone likes both males and females doesn't mean they're just in it for the sex. I know many, many bisexual people (myself included) who are in deeply committed relationships.
2006-08-08 04:16:29 · answer #7 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. The first rule is to be true to yourseld.
I hang out with my straight friends. Sometimes they go to gay clubs with me, and sometimes i go with them to straight places, making a sad puppy face.
As for more than just hanging out, like dating, there's no way it will happen, the best is we go our own sepparate ways very fast.
also im i'm the kind of guy who doesn't feel attracted by someone who doesn't feel attracted by me, so cant be used. impossible.ok, i was before, but learned.
2006-08-08 05:16:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about a rule, but I do know it isn't a good idea. We may be looking for an actual relationship (we do have those) but they might just being looking for a thrill. In the end, some one will get their heart broken.
2006-08-08 04:16:06 · answer #9 · answered by Mithrandir_black 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are not using you for a good time, but rather trying to convert you and for some odd reason they think they can change gay or lesbian people if they are a better lover
2006-08-08 04:10:20 · answer #10 · answered by babygurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going out to clubs and chillin is cool, but as far as relationships go, I stay as faaaaaaaaaaaar away from straight and bi women as I can get.
2006-08-08 06:30:55 · answer #11 · answered by angelajock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋