We shared the big news with his family about two weeks ago. Everyone is very excited and I dont know how to tell them that I miscarried this morning. I was 16 weeks pregnant, so it was a very late in pregnancy miscarriage. And on top of me being emotionally down and crying all the time, we have to tell them and hear all the "I'm sorrys" which is not what I want to hear right now. Does anyone have any ideas or know what I'm going through. Please dont be mean, it's really not what I need right now.
2006-08-07 21:05:03 · 9 answers · asked by HCW 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I am not going to mean. I have suffered a miscarriage. Unfortunately you are going to hear the "I'm sorrys". Am I correct in saying this was to be your first baby? Miscarriage, unbeknown to many people, is one of the most emotionally draining occurrences any woman has. Not only is it psycologically draining but the hormones get all mixed up too. It will take you quite a while to get over this. Both of you should go tell his family but let him go before you to prepare them so you may not hear "I'm sorry" but something other words of support. Did your doctor say why you miscarried? I hope you fall pregnant as soon as you feel well enough and that that pregnancy goes full term. It is not unusual for the first pregnancy to miscarry. I do not have the answer for that though. It just seems to be one of those mysteries.
2006-08-07 21:16:42 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dazed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 01:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dear. I can feel what you are going through. My wife and I lost two babies. One during delivery and the other 6 days after birth. The second time it happened, I think I was hit more by the loss than my wife. I was the one who did most of the crying. What hurt most was when people kept saying "I am sorry, the same thing happened to Job." I wanted to run and run. I even didn't want to see my wife. It hurt to see her in that state. But one thing I have learned is that we need our family and friends. Their presence helps a lot. And bare in mind that they mean good. I don't mean to be rude, but the funny part is, if they don't come, we feel abandoned. Let them share the pain with you...
2006-08-07 22:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by tomwaterboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have lost two babies, one at birth and one at 8 weeks pegnant. To answer your question you will need the support of your family and they will help get you thru this. Losing a baby is a terrible thing but with love and support the pain will ease tho never go away. If it is easier let him telI them but keep in mind he lost the baby too and will need you as well. I am so sorry for your loss.
2006-08-07 21:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by jenajet77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All elders are normally very seasoned and they can hear all sorts of odds and bear ups and down of life. The only thing you will have to share you miseries strongly and boldly with them which will help you to come out to normal position to some extent if not fully and with grace of almighty you will conceive in near future to deliver goods as per their wishes.
2006-08-07 21:21:55 · answer #5 · answered by Subhash M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him go and tell them and have him say you just want to be alone right now I went through the same thing with my ex's family
2006-08-07 21:09:45 · answer #6 · answered by kareni23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them. "Unfortunately, I miscarried, but we will be trying again as soon as possible." If someone says they're sorry, tell them that you'd prefer it if they'd wish you luck in the future, because you don't want to focus on what's happened.
2006-08-07 21:10:52 · answer #7 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them when your ready i was in a similar situation and there is no easy way to do it, i hate to say it but you just have to get the balls to do it and just realize they want to help. sorry to here of your loss. (i have lost 2)! good luck to you!!
2006-08-07 21:10:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
o hunni i think he should go and tell them if u r not ready, iv not been thru it but it not nice go and put ur head down and rest x
2006-08-07 21:24:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋