Several gay customers are now using so-called straight bars because they find gay bars boring and 'obvious'. do other people feel the same way
2006-08-07 20:55:18 · 24 answers · asked by http://hogshead.pokerknave.com/ 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I find bars of any kind are overrated. I really would rather meet a guy in a coffee shop.
2006-08-07 20:59:37 · answer #1 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find the gay bars to always be a lot of the same thing. When I go out, I want to have a good time. I want to relax. I mostly enjoy pubs and bars wherein you're able to sit down, enjoy a nice drink, and have a conversation. There are other times when I want to go out and dance. When it is the latter, I go to the gay bars. However, the former is not conducive to such an activity.
I also don't enjoy getting stared at by creepy, old men.
2006-08-08 03:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by Dan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In Vancouver, Canada, many younger gay guys avoid the gay bars because they are boring, the music sucks, and the scene is way too predictable. Also, some so-called gay bars have way too many (straight) women, so are not particularly attractive to gay men.
2006-08-07 22:22:22 · answer #3 · answered by Perplexed Music Lover 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in my experience the only real difference between gay and ordinary bars is u get charged on the door at some gay bars. i dont mind paying a sub if it keeps the idiots out, yet i know some bars do over charge.
gay bars dont smell any different to ordinary bars, lol, what an assumption to make.
peace swot xxx
2006-08-09 12:23:03 · answer #4 · answered by swot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not gay, but feel that gay bars are a lot safer that ordinary ones, you're not very likely to get a beer glass in the face, or whatever. And I have met some hot chicks there, as well!!!
2006-08-08 03:12:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to be a bouncer at a gay bar. I think most of them are obvious on purpose. In my experience, 98% of the people were just there to drink or to meet a stranger to have sex with that evening and never have contact with again.
2006-08-07 21:00:12 · answer #6 · answered by bombhaus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't go to bars often but I prefer gay bars. I have no gay friends living close by so its the only place I get to be with "family".
2006-08-08 02:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by Drewe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They certainly are. Why do gay peole go there.To feel part of a group? We don't have bars for wheelchair users do we? I know the only reason I went to a gay bar was to be picked up or pick up another man. Its all about sex, and the chase.
Think they are all abit seedy.
2006-08-07 21:36:40 · answer #8 · answered by ticklemonster 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normally only the ugly ones feel like that. The rest of us would pick a gay bar over a hogshead anyday. But really, can you blame us?
2006-08-08 00:27:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are only a couple of gay bars around but there are hordes of straight bars all over. If you are given cupcakes all year, wouldn't you like to try tiramisu?
2006-08-07 21:09:19 · answer #10 · answered by ak 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋