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do u think its possible for a gurl to be really popular yet very smart...so she cud be really cool and smart...beauty & brains...its hard to pull off..but duz anyone have any tips??

2006-08-07 20:45:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style Other - Beauty & Style

25 answers

With the spelling displayed in your post, you obviously weren't referring to yourself.

2006-08-07 20:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by jh 6 · 0 0

I used to have the same question, then I figured out that I have more friends than I thought. Just look at all the people that talk to you in a day. Besides, if your smart, you'll make it farther than the people that are just popular. If you ask my personal opinion, I'd rather not be the most popular, but insted, right in the middle. 1) You have more friends, and 2) Most of the really popular people I know are stuck up b*tches and think there sh*t don't stink.

2006-08-08 03:56:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Of course you can pull it off darling, just be yourself! Tons of people are smart and popular, just look at all the famous people who have pulled it off. If someone doesn't like you because you're smart, then they may just feel intimidated. So, don't let it bug you, I think you'll be fine, especially if you're already popular, yenno? Just remember to be yourself, don't change to be accepted by others, that's just living misery, besides will it matter in 10 years from now? Half the people you know won't remember you in 10 years, and you'll forget some of them too. If you don't start living for YOU instead of them, you'll be less likely to achieve personal happiness, and in my opinion, personal happiness should be first and for most, right?

Well anyways, I really think anyone could pull off brains & beauty, they are both great qualities!

Hope this advice helps! ;)

2006-08-08 04:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by i'mkailey.teehee. 2 · 0 0

Popularity is so overrated it's ridiculous. However, I haven't forgotten what it's like to be an unpopular teenager. I wanted so much to be with the "in" crowd, but it just didn't happen. So, without my realizing it, I slowly became popular with the "not-so-in" crowd, and I found that to be much more rewarding. I'm 52, now, and I see so many of those "in" crowd people who wound up being miserable. They wasted all their time and energy trying to maintain their popularity, and when they finally grew up they didn't have any survival skills, and they eventually failed at whatever they attempted. Just be yourself, do your homework, make good grades, and I guarantee you'll come out ahead in the long run.

2006-08-08 03:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Who cares? Popularity isn't all its cracked up to be. Those who are truly smart know that their worth doesn't come from popularity. That being said, it IS possible to smart and popular...depending on what your definition of "popularity" is. Being well liked and having lots of friends is one thing, but being the party girl who all guys want is not usually something a smart girl goes for. But thats just my opinion.

2006-08-15 15:40:39 · answer #5 · answered by Cari 2 · 0 0

It's possible, however it is harder for a girl to be smart and popular than a guy. In any case, being smart you'll be popular with the right people.

2006-08-08 03:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by I77 2 · 0 0

Definatly. At my school, almost all the really popular girls are smart. Just need to have time to hang out with your friends and go out and stuff. And take careof yourself, don't get too much into your studies. And don't talk about it around people.

2006-08-15 18:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by Futbol_jogabonita 2 · 0 0

really cool and smart? then you go to beauty and brains.... now to me being cool and being pretty are two different things.....

brains and beauty is possible as i had a friend in school that was like it, but due to her being smart, most boys wouldn't go near her in fear of looking stupid...
but if you really are smart then you would realise that popularity isn't everything, i would rather take my limited number of friends anytime as it is quality not quantity....

2006-08-08 04:14:10 · answer #8 · answered by sinnedfairy 5 · 0 0

wutever u do dont act better than anybody else ill tell you the secret to it....start conversations with people for no reason at all just say hi to everybody no matter how popular or unpopular and be real social

everything will fall into place after that but keep up with all the people u say hi to and try to remember thier names

AND BE YOURSELF
if they dont like you for who you are then **** em

2006-08-08 03:50:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

yup wanna know why i am. everyone says i am a popular person and i think irs annoying so do something big or get alot of friends and wear your fav clothes ( like a sweatshirt jeans yea know) see i hate being popular and i might be popular but boy i dont act it i have girlfriends but i hang wit the boys ( mostly cute ones) hehe so i hoped this helped if have questions email me

2006-08-14 20:18:27 · answer #10 · answered by Jackie C 1 · 0 1

Yeah. The most important thing, though, is to try not to be too shy. You want people to understand you, and then they might want to hang out, and that is usually how people become, 'popular'

2006-08-15 08:51:47 · answer #11 · answered by . 2 · 0 0

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