I don't understand, he said forever, but he says he dosen't want to date me anymore. I don't understand, and I feel ugly all over and want to die. I've been wallowing in my own self-pity, and no matter what I do, a part of me still thinks that he will come back, and that same part is willing to wait. What should I do? He told me very clearly that he won't come back, and when I think that, I don't want to live. I don't have insurance, so don't suggest therapy, because I wouldn't be able to go.
2006-08-07 20:44:19 · 7 answers · asked by crazypantsmcgee69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No need to be upset. If you are a teenager, remember that %97 of teenager relationships fail. This is probably the result of miscommunication.
2006-08-07 20:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by k1ng_koopa713 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is going to sound insensitive but you have to move on like he's doing. He already told you he doesn't want to be with you anymore so do not expect he will return. It has absolutely nothing to do with your looks. It may seem like it's the end of the world for you but believe me, the sun will come out cause it always does. Been there and done that. I'm now married to a wonderful man and when I think of my ex, I ask myself "what the hell was I thinking?" Don't put your self esteem in the hands of another. There are a lot of guys out there who deserve you. Time heals all wounds.
2006-08-08 03:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to stay busy. Read a book hang out with your freinds. Whatever you like to do. Just don't kill your self. He probably meant that when he said it. People always think they are going to be together forever. But people change. You will find someone else eventually. There is someone for everyone. Definitely don't wait. People don't change. Everybody goes through this. Don't give up. Eventually these ugly feeling will disappear.
2006-08-10 14:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by jarvis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, it means that he's really unsure re: what he wants. It might sound cliche, but it's probably not about you at all. It's about him. He's trying to find himself, which in your situation, obviously hurts a hell of a lot, but please remember -- it's him who is lacking. Not you. He's unable (at the moment) to be in a relationship with you, but that doesn't mean that you've failed in any way. It means that he's searching for something that he doesn't understand yet. I know it's hard -- but hang in there. Stay true to yourself.
2006-08-08 03:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by inoym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea you might love him with all your heart i understand but dont make yourself feel all bad inside because its not worth it.It might take days months or years to get over him but try to move and and hope he might come back one day but until then dont hurt yourself or think your ugly because he left you.
2006-08-08 03:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does not kill you can only make you stronger. Don't let him win.
2006-08-08 04:03:04 · answer #6 · answered by carmella85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he mean you never see them and you will feel beauty in your life.
2006-08-08 03:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by saxon_mixer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋