2006-08-07 20:25:29 · 10 answers · asked by froggy moto 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Hey, my advice to you is to not listen to those guys. You are only 13 years old! Wait until high school to try to be a "turn on". And if those guys tell you straight to your face that you are a "real turn off", then FORGET ABOUT THEM, you wouldnt wanna be with em anyway, if they are already insulting you...
2006-08-07 20:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by im_cool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is such a "turn off" to them?
I think every guy will have an opinion. Some will think you are a "turn on" as others who think you are a "turn off".
If you feel you need improvement in a few things, then do it for yourself. Never do it for a male just to empress them. Do it for your happiness and your self confidence.
Other than that, don't take to heart what those guys say. Just be yourself and someone will come along to think you are.
2006-08-07 20:38:54 · answer #2 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 13, most boys are trying to deal with their own masculinity, or lack of, and playing the macho role and maybe insulting you is a defence mechanism for their own shyness around girls or young women. Dont listen or let thier words hurt you. And dont compare yourself with others either. There is only you in this whole world and you are special!!
2006-08-07 23:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by cbmaclean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brush your teeth. Bad breath is a turn off.
2006-08-07 20:48:47 · answer #4 · answered by Nicki Lee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit worryin about it why do you little kids worry about people of the opposite sex who gives a damn your not a turn on or a turn off you dont even have **** yet whats wrong with you
2006-08-07 20:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told u STOP goin wit guys ur bein a slut and throwin ur life away wat u want a baby and ruin ur life or worse get aids wait til ur older and wen theres some1 who respects u, mayb ur a turn off cos ur only 13
2006-08-07 21:09:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me, i am 14 and when i was 9,10 i wished that guys would like me, that i would have a boyfriend.Now, I am sick of it cause everywhere i go i see them and trust me all they want is sex. Focus on your studies and forget them! And dont care what they think!
2006-08-08 05:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by tennys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its not u it them... you are probably too good for for them... just dotn worry about them there is always a guy thats going to love you for you... just believe in your self and prove them wrong by bettering your self the best way you can...
2006-08-07 20:34:43 · answer #8 · answered by Lil Aquarius 3207 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shouldnt u be more worried about ur studies thn worrying about some dudes?
2006-08-07 20:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Sunshine ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is just work at school and wait for someone to actually want you for you! it works! trust me
2006-08-07 20:40:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋