i think i'm a le...sorry i'm too ashamed to say it. I have a crush on my friend. i really bad one.
2006-08-07 20:22:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
dont be ashamed. just explore more abt urself b4 u make any vital moves ok hunny. & be positivew urself
2006-08-07 20:26:40 · answer #1 · answered by nadiee mulisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tary,
It's okay. First you need to stand back and relax and then look at the situation differently. Do you have feelings for guys, basically what do you feel. Then remember- at one point or another you will have crushes on your friends male or female- its a part of life at a young age.
You also have to keep in mind that research has shown that there has been more proof that people are born gay and have signs when they are younger and normally figure it out when they reach puberty. It is nothing to be ashamed about. There are actually gay olympics, and organizations, clubs, its getting better all the now and there is nothing to be ashamed about.
You will find when you reach college that there are also clubs and alliances that are active about GLBT issues. Really good place to meet people and just hang out and enjoy yourself.
Just remember to be proud of who you are and you don't have to come out of the closet when you know for sure right off- take it slowly and do it in confidence- usually a close friend, teacher, coach, or councler is the best way to talk things out.
2006-08-08 03:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, please remember that we are animals, and our bodies do control us, and the sex drive in people (or animals) is a very strong compulsion. We can't chose our sexual orientation but some try to change...doesn't work...we live a life of denial and unhappiness. But you must remember that others don't share your feelings and to be gay is ok but respect your parents and friends and keep it a private issue. Now about your friend, be careful, don't rush and let her show you if she is interested in you as more than a friend. You could lose a good friend. Someday, it may be ok to be open but that hasn't happened yet...go easy and show a bit of affection, if it is returned, then perhaps you can take another step. But, always be true to yourself and follow your feelings.
2006-08-08 03:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by Frank 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be ashamed dear. Its normal, its ok, its fun! Crushes on friends can be tricky, I'd wait to figure out if you actually are before trying something. Take some time, really look into yourself. Always remember, its ok. Ignore the hate mongers who don't understand it.
If you are Christian, read this: http://www.godmademegay.com/...
2006-08-08 03:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by Mithrandir_black 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be fooled by everything you've heard that it's OK to be gay. It's not. Homosexuality is a sin. It is a temptation from Satan. You'll find nothing in the Bible that says it's OK.
2006-08-08 03:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have a crush on your friend, a really GOOD one!
2006-08-08 08:56:04 · answer #6 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time and make more observation till you are surer. Whatever you are, be proud of yourself. Lots of people out there don't know what they themselves really are, but they are so eager to criticize others. They are not worthy of your attention.
2006-08-08 03:29:02 · answer #7 · answered by Kanda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its o.k , Butterfly !
2006-08-08 03:34:42 · answer #8 · answered by Catt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋