I have 2 GF's,
one lives abroad but is comming to live with me next year and the other one is a local.
I obviously love 2 bits the one abroad but sort of love the local one 2, but not as much.
thing is am I cheating on the abroad one or not?
I live in Australia.
thanks
2006-08-07 20:19:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hi Mitch. Yes you are cheating on your overseas girlfriend, unless you made an arrangement that you could both see other people while apart.
You are also stringing the other woman along, because she doesn't know that you are going to dump her as soon as your girlfriend arrives.
To be honest with you, this is a very common situation and you are not the first person to do this. You could probably get away with it, but it's best to be upfront with everyone right from the start. You can still be honest and tell your local girlfriend the situation - she may even accept it.
2006-08-07 20:29:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Obviously yes
2006-08-08 03:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by valane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mitch ya know damn well your cheating you didn't even have to ask!! the women from abroad it pulling up all her roots to be with you i think you should make a decision about who you want to be with and stop the bull **** mister!! the one who doesn't get will hurt for a while but wouldn't you rather break it off with her then have her find another women in your bed?? good luck !
2006-08-08 03:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by MUNCHKIN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are cheating i say just pick one or the other.Plus in the end you will only be able to be with one or worse lose both. Dont be greedy some guy will pick one of em up so you dont have to worry about it.
2006-08-08 03:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u r n u know ur too
u know who u like more so wht r u waitin for
stop the relationship wif the local one n dun hurt ur gf again
2006-08-08 03:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by mion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're cheating. Tell both of them and let them decide if they want to bother giving you another chance (though you definately don't deserve it from either of them).
2006-08-08 03:28:48 · answer #6 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are cheating on the one you either were with first, or the one you love the most. get rid of one of them before things get ugly.
2006-08-08 03:24:03 · answer #7 · answered by singitoutloudandclear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is room to think twice, then absolutely YES, you are cheating!
2006-08-08 03:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by Mary G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, not in my books.Keep up the good work
2006-08-08 05:51:22 · answer #9 · answered by charlimackay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that is cheating
2006-08-08 03:23:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋