What really makes sex so appealing that some pepole just have to have sex before marrige?? And NO stupid answers please!!
2006-08-07 19:34:49 · 14 answers · asked by Freckel Face 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Unfortunately, its not about it being appealing! Some people just aren't strong enough. They don't look at life down the road with all the possible consequences that can occur.
Maybe they dont have that adult nurturing them or leading them in the right direction.
There are so many different reasons!
2006-08-07 19:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by ftbll-mom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex has been so advertized that is why. But sex is an integral part of human existence. Without it the world will be empty. It is Gods commandement. Go unto the world and multiply. Except that it is at this present generation being abused. Sex is both physically and spiritually uplifting if you know how. Not just because you want to f...... and that would be different. Sex, love making and f....ng are very very different. Sex makes you younger specially if you are above 45.
2006-08-08 02:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, the sense of touch pervades and supercedes all other senses, and beauty in the opposite sex has from the times of Adam been most appealing to our visual sense and invariably arouses in us the sexual instinct for intimacy, enter the sense of touch at this point to declare that intimacy is meant for simulating your neurotic nerves and the need is fulfilled and satisfy,only when this need is satisfied does our brain and body relax,
This for us my dear is Gods design, and marriage is but a mere permanant union of two such desires, and ordained by God in his Different Giudes for a proper Living, Alas we humans only remember one and fail to remember the other. With marriage comes responsibility and with it comes our limits and Bounds. So we tend to taste the pleasures of the flesh without committing,
Like a credit card we live, we think fun now and commitment later. 99% of the times we split after the fun.
2006-08-08 02:46:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A sex with compromise is always appealing irrespect of the fact that it is done before or after marriage. Love begets love
2006-08-08 02:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by Hardil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....
When you get really close to someone and start to develop strong feelings, you want to show them as much love as possible. Often kissing, hugging, and holding hands doesn't do the trick. There's just something inside your body that needs to be close to that person, and sex is an extremely intimate, beautiful *AND AMAZING* thing to share.
:) Hope that helps you understand!
2006-08-08 02:40:26 · answer #5 · answered by cutiewithabooooty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has to do with biological urges and an inability to show enough character to resist the urge. Over 30% of the young people out there are carriers of sexually transmitted diseases.
If you are thinking about it, I would advise you to wait.
2006-08-08 02:47:13 · answer #6 · answered by Candidus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i will try to explain why i feel like doing it before marriage. others had pretty good points, and one that i found fit to me was the one of the urges and inability to control them. but the truth is, i am ready for sex and commitment. marriage is a big deal for me but i would like to have sex before because i want to be intamate with the person i will give myself for the rest of our lives. and i know the consequenses, but i think that it would be good to do it, if done safely and consciouly-which is how i will do it once my GF decides she's ready because honestly i may be ignorant thinking this but i want to spend my life with her i want to be with her for the rest of my life and marry her. but i wanna be able to set aside sex for the marriage because it wont be something new once we are married. and (this may end up in the "stupid answers" you dont want) i wanna be able to have fun with her hehehe, i love her and this will complete the love, emotionally and physically, before we are married.
2006-08-08 03:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by ParadoxZero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a variety of things.
First we are made to enjoy sex, it is found by many people to be one of the best experiences in life.
Next, the intimacy many find also very appealing.
Also our culture is very sexual and tends to encourage sex.
Lastly, many people do not see marriage as all that important and see no reason to link sex with marriage.
2006-08-08 02:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by mindtweak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would anyone WANT to get married JUST to have sex especially when you can do it with as many people as you want without all the drama?
2006-08-08 02:37:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...I honestly am not sure. Once we start, stopping is hard though. And you don't really know someone 'till you see what they're like after sex. Like some girls get too clingy and needy.
2006-08-08 02:48:11 · answer #10 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋