I have 15yrs son studying in X std. Now a days he is not going to school & Tution. He takes away the money from home & goes to play computor watch TV WWF,CN,Sports,Pogo,Tensports,HBO,StarMovies then want to eat in the Hotels & to play Football & Volley Ball. These are his activities. I do not know what to do with this boy. I have explain in good mannar tht he is doing wrong. 1st to study & the next is to play & etc.,but he does not listen, I am working women I come out at 8.30am & reach home at 8.30pm. Pls tell me what to do with this boy. He has not failed in any class but now I am scared what he will do in the SSLC(10th Standard).His class teacher also call & told me tht he is missing the class & his notes are incomplete. He is not giving respect & talking rudly to parents.Neighbours are scolding me that I am not controlling him if I live him like this he may go in a wrong way, but I wont scold him because nowadays if we scold them they live the house so I told him in good mannar.
2006-08-07 19:28:00 · 12 answers · asked by Madhu 1 in Computers & Internet ➔ Internet
When you say that he takes money from home, i assume you mean that it is not his. Sometimes, young teens get very fed up with their stressing school life and just have to rebel to have some time off. Sometimes, you may not have the power to stop him, it all depends on himself now. It may take either 1. Some time for hime to realise that he has been doing the wrong things at the wrong time, or 2.something bad to happen to him, and make him learn his lesson. Not many teens go the wrong way,
2006-08-07 19:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by sammi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your son is a reflection of you and everything you have taught him. He's undisciplined so when he has to make his own decisions, these things are what he does. Just imagine what he's doing that you don't know about. He's a kid. Most of us were the same way. I think you took raising a child too lightly. Now it seems you are out of touch. My advice; be patient, be very patient. This phase will pass as your son matures. Create a plan to deal with the next year or so. Do control access to the computer. Do make him earn what money he gets from the house( hide it or don't leave it there) Also, try spending more time with him. Be creative and put out considerably more effort to turn this situation with you son around. Good luck.
2006-08-07 20:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by madcan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough love! You need to scold him !! You are still the parent and he needs to understand that. He is taking advantage of the fact that you are being nice. He knows no matter what he does, you won't get mad. That needs to change. Stop worrying about his feelings right know, start thinking about his future. Start taking away everything that he likes. My mom taught me that I have to earn things, she didn't just give it to me. If my brother and I did something bad she would take away the things we liked until we corrected the problem. He's only 15 yrs. old, get a hold of him know before he is totally out of control and you can't fix it. It sounds like you are on your own. If his father is around make him get involved. Get involved with his teachers, school. Get him into clubs, sports, anything that will keep him out of trouble why you are working. Most of the time that is while kids get into trouble...they're bored. Good Luck!!
2006-08-07 19:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by andrea b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean when you say X std?
If you've waited until hes 15 to make him mind you may be in trouble. He can't legally leave at 15. Take away the computer and games until he does what hes supposed to. If your at work that many hours and hes there at home unsupervised...at that age...thats your biggest problem. See if you can find some sort of after school activity he would enjoy...maybe even a computer class.
2006-08-07 19:36:12 · answer #4 · answered by melinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your son knew what was in the tea; that's why he drank it. He is not without blame. Why would you advise the school to keep him separated from the 17 year-old if they hadn't already been "partners" in other questionable activity? You knew that your son was capable of doing exactly what he did, that's why. The 17 year-old didn't talk to the doctor to "admit" what type cough medication had been taken. He had to say WHAT it was so the doctor would know exactly what he was dealing with and how best to treat your son. You need to place the blame squarely on your son's shoulders and stop trying to lay it all on the school and the other person. Under the circumstances, I think the suspension was fair.
2016-03-27 03:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
please explain him that how his carrier is important just take him away to any nice place in weak end and ezplain him tell him how u need to work hard and make money tell him about his future life
just take him calmly please do not scold on him otherwise he will become worse
tell him what happens when some one stoles any thing let him be comfortable to speak with u
explain him the value of life and how to live life
any other help please u may contact me on madheart2@yahoo.com
2006-08-07 19:42:02 · answer #6 · answered by Pritesh Kabra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a back bone! You are the parent and it is your job to make him tow the line, get on with it!!!!!
2006-08-07 19:33:58 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him to a boarding school.
2006-08-07 19:32:37 · answer #8 · answered by Kanda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LoL i think you posted this question in the wrong section.
2006-08-11 00:56:17 · answer #9 · answered by reevester 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are u talkin about X std WTF is that read what the hell u wrote cause u cant spell computor right LMAO iono theres something wrong with u cause i dont understand anything about ur son...........
2006-08-07 19:33:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋