i have been with with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years and everything has been great.. just recently he has moved away from me but he picks me up durning the week and i stay over his house a coupld of nights a week.. well i was checking his my space and some girl i have no idea who she is tryed to add him and she is near were i live so he must know her.. my question is should i worry or shouldnt i because i am always with him.. and also there are a few cousins that are trying to break us up and she has added them do you think thats what it is need honest answers cause we have a 1 year old together and this will hurt him if we break up thanks everyone
2006-08-07 19:25:29 · 7 answers · asked by Melinda D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First, why did he move away from you and is still seeing you. Do you still have sex with him? If you do then stop right now. It sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too. Before he gets into a routine of talking and seeing other females, he needs to be aware of his responsibility to your child. It's not just your child, it's his too. Both your priorities are to your child and no one else. You three are a family and whatever it takes you need to keep it that way. Go get some counseling and see what the issues are that made him move out, cause it sounds like he still wants to be with you. You just need to make sure it's not the sex he wants and no other responsibility, cause it just doesn't work that way. Have respect for yourself now and it will teach your child to have respect for himself too....babies are sponges....they absorb everything and feel vibes very easily. It's your job to teach that baby to be a good and responsible adult. So you have to do it for yourself first.
2006-08-07 19:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by honeybee4u2c 4 · 2⤊ 4⤋
Does he know you are checking his myspace? Have you asked him about it? It really might just be a friend from the past. I know of people who look people up on myspace all the time and just want to say hi. This probably isn't much help, but I think it would be a good idea to try to talk to him about it but not in an accusatory kind of way. If you don't clear this up now, you will continue to wonder about it and that is not going to be good for your child or your relationship. Why did he move away from you, does it have anything to do with this?
2006-08-07 19:34:42 · answer #2 · answered by purpledocschick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are most people don't know everyone on myspace and just add people cause they come up in the same zip code. if you don't trust your man and childs father it will never work that is what relationships are built on. Ask him whats up or hell send her a messege and ask her yourself. Cause if he is messing around he's telling her another story.
2006-08-07 19:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should worry a little.
as i always say "talking to him is the best way".
u can discuss the issue together and see what is it!!
good luck!
2006-08-07 19:31:15 · answer #4 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u probably thinking too far ahead. signs on insecurities. U did not say why he moved far away anyway. and why did u not go with him?
2006-08-07 19:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by Max 77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I ask why he has moved away from you ?
2006-08-07 20:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should not be in such a site at all if he is committed to you..
2006-08-07 23:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋