I'm 9 months pregnant and my bf is cheating I know for sure I don't know what to do I can't stop crying and I'm stressed out. I wish I knew how how he could do this.
2006-08-07 19:24:13 · 8 answers · asked by honeygirland 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Pray, keep a posative attitude and believe in yourself. That's about all you can do since you are getting ready to give birth. Take it easy. Life won't be like this forever.
2006-08-07 19:29:20 · answer #1 · answered by Its Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First -- see a lawyer and make sure you get primary custody of that baby and make sure you serve him with legal documents for child support.
Second -- dump his sorry A$$. If you stay with him both you and your baby are in for a world of heartache. You would be better off raising this kid alone, than always wondering if your good for nothing b/f is out running around.
Third -- build up a support system for yourself and your child with friends and family who will be there to support you.
How can he do it? Some men just don't have a conscience. They will say it is just for sex and they don't love the other girl, they love you, blah, blah, blah. And they might even mean it. Or think they do.
BUT! Someone can only take advantage of you if you let them. Do NOT let him continue to take advantage of you. You have to be strong for not just yourself, but your baby. You need to teach that child how to have self-reliance and self-respect. You and your child are worth it.
Love, light and blessings!
2006-08-08 02:32:06 · answer #2 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm so sorry for you....
But don't worry,
Once the baby is here, I'm sure that your bf will pay you more attention.
Keep your calm...
After the 9 month do not hesitate to speak to him and force him to realize the situation and responsibilities.
2006-08-08 02:32:24 · answer #3 · answered by angate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a jerk!
Do you want to raise a baby alone? Adoption is always an option. Many families would love to have a baby.
If you want to do it alone that is great! It's hard, but I am sure you will manage. I do everyday. Whatever you do, LEAVE HIM you don't deserve to be lied to, and cheated on!
2006-08-08 02:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all THINK OF YOUR BABY! I know finding out that your bf is cheating must be heart-breaking, but you dont want to stress yourself or your unborn baby... it can be dangerous! It can cause premature labor!
2006-08-08 02:32:28 · answer #5 · answered by mimi24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him, concentrate on the baby!! Being stressed out is not good when you are pregnant.
2006-08-08 02:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by SwEeT-As-cAnDy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life's like that.
life is mean right?
now that you know his true colors, pack up and go somewhere else. anyways, you think you could expect something from him? or ask him about your sticky situation. being pregnant is very hard. explain that to him. not only you need financial but emotional help as well.
2006-08-08 02:30:36 · answer #7 · answered by fakemoonlandings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should get rid of him, u can raise a baby on ur own i have many friends doing it and coping,dont stay with a cheater he will only do it again
2006-08-08 09:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋