Ok, I really like this girl. She is the most beautiful girl I have ever met. I love everything about her. And i want to tell her, but I dont know how to do it. We have not really been close friends, but like mediocre friends, and she dosent know i dont think, but we will be going to diffrent schools this next year, but live really close togeather, within 5 minutes. The only thing i have to contact her is AIM. and she is on alot, and we have some conversations, but i still dont know what to do. We are both in the 9th grade, going into 10th at the end of this week. i am just lost ion what to do. I reallllllly like this girl. She is perfect in my eyes. And she really needs rto know. because i dont want her to be taken efor i do anything, what should i do?
I have thought to tel her on aim, like so:
"i have afreind who really likes this girl, what should he do?" then do what she says, but is that too obvious, i just dont know
I really do love her, i am Sure, and i dont want to lose her
2006-08-07 18:58:56 · 13 answers · asked by Me!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Open your mouth and tell her
2006-08-07 19:10:38 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can sometimes be confusing with being in love. You can't really love someone before you haven't learned to do so. You are in love with this girl by the way I'm reading your story. Nothing wrong with that. Just tell her how you feel. Before it's too late. You have a 50/50 chance of winning her heart. But if you don't tell her, you have a 100% chance of losing her. You can start by improving your friendship. Find out what she likes and go out of your way to give her the small things. Like a rose (what colour she likes) or her favourite chocolate. That way you will win her trust in you.
Good luck to you. I hope for the best!
2006-08-08 02:06:47 · answer #2 · answered by natasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really hard at your age, well any age really, cause we are all so afraid of rejection. Start out with some nice things to do with her or for her. Don't get to sappy or serious when you start out. Then as you see how she reacts to your gestures, you will get a better idea of how she feels about you. If you come right out and tell her how you feel, you'll scare her away most likely. You only have a week to do this in? Why did you wait so long to start letting her know? Maybe if you just say you want to see her before she leaves and buy her some flowers and say some sweet things to her, then shyly ask her if you can give her a kiss, she might be responsive and then you will know, but you are really setting yourself up for a possible huge let down. Who knows, stranger things have happened. Please let us know what happens ...anyway I would like to know what you decide to do. Email me and let me know ...Good luck sweetie.
2006-08-08 02:13:44 · answer #3 · answered by honeybee4u2c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your AIM idea will be a dud at best. Letting this girl know how you feel is only a small part of what you really want. You really want her to WANT to be with you.
AIM with her and find out what she likes. Find out where she likes to go, what she likes to do, the kind of ice cream she likes. Find out if she likes to get up early, stay up late, watch movies, or ride a bike. Find out what frustrates her and find out which things she talks to her friends about and which things she hides from them.
Once you know all of this and more, asking to spend a little time with her doing something she enjoys will be fun for both of you.
Don't rush it. If she lives only 5 minutes away and you're just starting 10th grade you have plenty of time to develop a relationship. Start by being a guy she likes to spend time with. Offer her your opinions from a guys perspective, while being respectful of hers.
During the time you are developing the relationship, keep yourself focused on winning this girls heart. Don't break down and say, "Gee, I really love you." Instead, just make it clear that you want to spend time with her and make her feel the same way. Love is all about mutual consent. If it's not mutual its off balance, out-of-whack, and more commonly known as stalking. I've never heard of a girl falling in love with her stalker. However, girls fall in love with guy friends every day.
Develop your friendship, find commonalities and build trust. Find things to do together that you both enjoy so that she begins to look forward to her time with you as much as you do with her.
2006-08-08 02:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by tke999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all my man, im gonna try to help u, but for the record ur goin in to tenth grade and that is way to early to be thinkin about this kinda stuff as being really important.
Secondly, It would best being said in person, and still there is no garaunteetaht u will see results. but try to tell her how u feel i mean u always want to try and maintain the freindship if there isnt a further relationship because u can build on this.
before u say anything it would be easier if u built up to it like tried to hang out and had a nice time. try not to say it after a sappy movie because sometimes chicks think that seeing stuff likethis in a movie is what brought on the feelings, cuz who doesnt want to be in a movie.
say somting like "I want to tell u somthing, but i mite fumble it a little bit but but please try and wait til im one before u say anything, (from there you should tell her things about when u first saw her ect.) I know u have this picture in ur head of how u want her to feel and if u show her that feeling she'll know how u truely feel
And thirdly u mite watch to many movies, Good luck and no worries Bra
2006-08-08 02:20:54 · answer #5 · answered by emberjet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try flirting kinda jokingly with her, you can do this until your confidence builds a bit more and your more comfortable talking to her. Then when she gives you the right chance to tell her how you feel man up and do it. I always pray for the words I need to express myself and it has yet to fail me thus far with women. Good luck!
-NmD!
2006-08-08 02:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should write her a letter, a proper letter, on nice paper, in your own handwriting, telling her exactly how you feel about her. And then you should hand-deliver it into her mailbox. If you write from your heart, she will treasure it forever.
2006-08-08 02:04:09 · answer #7 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know her more...and ask for her number soon enough you guys could chill then you wait like just a little bit to see if shes the girl you thought she was and then if she is tell her u like her.
2006-08-08 02:06:27 · answer #8 · answered by anynomous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her, if you can't get up the nerve then write her a letter and explain to her how you feel. Do what you feel is right, but you need to do it asap.
2006-08-08 02:04:07 · answer #9 · answered by jennjo270 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful about getting too attached to a girl because a friend did this recently. he promised her that he would love her forever. they started going out. he really was in love with her. but then she heard a roumor that he had sex with another girl. she dumped him and now hates him. he got all depressed and i thought he was going to kill himself. but if you really want to go out with her then what i did with my current girlfriend was i went through her best friend.
2006-08-08 02:05:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋