just say i like you too even though you're ashamed or anything.
2006-08-07 18:55:08
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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hmmm. surveilence. perception. attention. active.
SPAA technique.
1) surveilence - test the waters. how? talk to her. strike up a conversation. see how it goes. or just say hi and chat for a little. whatever. see how she reacts.
2) perception - does she laugh? make eye contact? what's the general "feel" of your chemistry together?
3) attention - pay attention to her signals. smiling, laughter, touching, etc. just cuz she doesn't seem interested doesn't mean she is not, she could just be shy. or in a not-talky mood at that particular time. just be open, persistent (but not overly so), and confident.
4) active - and here's the real interesting part. after the initial conversation in which you show her interest in conversing with her, the next time you see her, show a bit of interest then back off - leave her wanting more. maybe get in a conversation with her friend. nothing big. but watch her reaction.
human nature to want what you don't have. and humans like a challenge. easy things are boring. she had your attention the last time. this time, she needs to fight a little for it.
take #4 with a grain of salt though, it's not REAL important, but can be an initial spark. a good test.
but the most imporant advice is:
Be.
Be yourself and not worry so much if she likes you in that way. because deep down it really doesn't matter, as much as feelings will trick you into thinking so. what it does provide is an exciting possibility. just have fun with it. :)
2006-08-07 19:19:58
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answered by Triad 2
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Ok dude, (or girl if ur lesbian lol), this is the straight out answer cuz i was JUST there, and when i mean JUST there i mean like an hour ago. Your issue isnt if ur wondering if she likes you, you know what it is. Look deep down..... U NO she likes you. Your just scared to ask her. I am positive if you ask her to a movie or say i really enjoy being around you (as cheesy as it may sound) and say that you really like her and think that she is gorgeous she will definitly go out with you and already likes you. Just try it. There is nothing worse than not knowing and then seeing somebody else going out with her. DO IT! If you have any other girl related questions or anybody who does that sees this, just email me at forgotensoldier9@netscape.net Please email too, i am not trying to brag but i have had A LOT of experience with girls and i can seriuosly help you, no question is too lame or weird. * ps ur on ur own with sex or anything like that but i will tell u when u no WHEN to kiss her and stuff
2006-08-09 09:22:14
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answered by forgotensoldier9 1
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Leave it for 20 years and then track her down so you 'accidentally' bump into her in the street when she's on a grocery run and trying to keep control of 3 kids. Have a short conversation and when you part, wait a few seconds then turn around. If she's looking your way and not at the kids then she liked you 20 years ago.
2006-08-14 09:42:20
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answer #4
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answered by James H 2
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first of all every girl you meet is different each girl has somethin magic about her like her eyes voice body or love first with any girl start with a brief introduction of who you are and where you are from than know the girl as a friend asked her gently if she is single if she isinterested inyou you will know like the vibe she gives out like licking her lips at you or flirting with her eyes or touching your handand face softly speaking in a soft sexy voice ifyou like her and she like you go for it treat herwelland respect herif a guy really cares for his girl he would do anything for her even if it's putting his life on hold for her you will find the girl of ur dreams never ever rush the relationship know ur limits and stick to know contact me if you like maybe i am that girl you arelookingforwho knows good luck i wish you all the bestgive the girl a chance to know you more each day
2006-08-15 16:55:46
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answer #5
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answered by jamie indianprincess 1
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she'll throw seductive looks at you.
she'll laugh at your jokes even if it's not funny.
she'll be around you wherever you are.
when you're near, she will louden her voice or laugh aloud so you would notice.
she'll sweettext you using either her name.
she'll text you using an alias but you will know its her all along.
when you're near her, her hear beats go so loud fast like gongs you can actually hear them.
If you look closely in her eyes, you'll see that they're dilated.
if you touch her testily, she'll give a slight jerk.
if you actually talk with her, she'll blush and she can't look at you straight in the eye.
if you ask her out, she'll initially give off a sigh of relief. she might say no to start off the chase and if you oblige to that, you can see a tint of sadness or irritation in her eyes.
she might say yes, right away but that's just because she really likes you she wouldn't want to pass on the chance to be with you.
2006-08-07 19:07:04
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answered by maiax 3
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you will just know!! Eye contact, sound of her laughter, who starts up conversation, and what topics you talk about can give you clues. If she looks at you with a smile that's a good sign. if shes comfortable and sits down and puts her hands on the table, and how close she sits to you too. conversation, if you guys have an entertaining funny conversation, with alot of laughts, that's a good thing. if she brings up sexually stuff its good too. things to look out for, is her talking about other guys, not finishing conversations. silence etc. then again she might be really shy and into you. some times you just got to get up the balls and ask her out once. if she declines dont ask again, unless she brings it up!!
2006-08-07 19:01:41
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answer #7
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answered by Jonas V 3
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Tell her that you like and her. Her reaction will tell you all that you need to know. If she reacts with disgust, then tell her you were just playing, and your boys thought that you would get a kick out of knowing.
2006-08-15 13:10:38
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answer #8
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answered by shamogreen 2
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Observe how she behaves around you both when it's just the two of you and when others are around. Ask her if she'd like to go to somewhere that is fun or interesting; you could also tell her that you like her and want to know how she feels about you; it depends on how confident and bold you are...
2006-08-07 19:00:08
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm a girl so I know many things:
1.) When she gets your number.
2.) When she always goes with you.
3.) When she is mad at you.(The more you hate, the more you love.)
GO FOR IT!!!
2006-08-07 18:56:22
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answered by LyFiSabLiSs 2
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KISS.... keep it super simple, communication is the key, if she keeps chatting with you and asking you questions that shows she keen to know about you. Also, if she touches her hair and comes closer to you that's an extra star for you!!! and then keep making her laugh and that's it ..... follow the flow. Cheers
2006-08-12 21:29:46
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answered by Anonymous
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