What kind of problems would a newlywed couple have if they didn't hve their own place the first couple of years of marriage?
2006-08-07 18:46:16 · 10 answers · asked by sally_that_girl! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not having your own place can be a strain, but if neither of you are able to support a house hold on your own, don't worry do the best you can and get all your finances in order as quickly as possible then you will more appreciate the "privacy" of your own place... Good Luck.
2006-08-07 18:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by eldertrouble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the first things you would need to consider is that as a man and woman start a life together, they have a lot of things to deal with. Each is bringing a different set of expectations and experiences and family values into the relationship. If you are lining with someone else sometimes it is tempting to use the other people as a kind of sounding board or asking advice from them, where if you are lining in your own place it is easier for you to work things out. There are also bound to be things that either one of you might have with things like, who does what , when. With more people it takes more effort on everyone's part to work it all out and who will pay what bills and be responsible for which chores? This can be a problem even if you aren't married but when you get more people involved it gets harder. I guess you need to think it through carefully and then make your decision I think it is best if you at least do somethings without the other people just for the sake of your relationship.
2006-08-07 19:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by George M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will most likely cause problems, but if the people y'all are living with are in laws, then that would be the biggest problem. I could never live with my in laws and niether could hubby. If it was a sister ir friend then that may be easier.
2006-08-07 18:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by Froggie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married to my ex husband for 8 years and his mother lived with us. Even though she tried to give us our space it was very annoying everytime she would butt into our relationship and our financial situtations. Imagine trying to get your freak on with your husbands mother in the next room or even in the same house.... not to easy.
Now my current mother in law lives in a totally different town.luckily
2006-08-07 19:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by gwalsh1503 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. we lived with my mother in law the 1st year and i couldnt take no more. u want ur own place to live so u can clean it how u want and have things u want.
2006-08-07 18:57:54 · answer #5 · answered by kimmy209 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends is it a shared house or is it relatives? I would never move in with the in-laws.
2006-08-07 18:54:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your own place asap! or your relationship may be on its way down the drain
2006-08-07 19:04:40 · answer #7 · answered by Kindashy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No privacy, not being able to create a conservative atmosphere.
2006-08-07 18:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by Athena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, yes
2006-08-07 18:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by Peach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most definitely
2006-08-07 18:50:50 · answer #10 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋