2006-08-07 18:30:48 · 15 answers · asked by grig-gyal 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
every dude that i seem to meet want to have sex on the first date, is something wrong for saying no to them? damn!! let me get to know you first.
2006-08-07 18:54:11 · update #1
BECAUSE OUR SOCIETY HAS ALLOWED IT TO BECOME ACCEPTED BECAUSE OF PEER PRESSURE/POLITICAL CORRECT TYPE OF "THINKING". WE HAVE BECOME LAZY WITH TEACHING AND ABIDING BY THE STRICT VALUES AND MORALS THAT OUR COUNTRY WAS FOUNDED UPON. OUR COUNTRY'S LEADERS ARE CAUGHT UP IN IT, THE DRUG INDUSTRY HELPS IT ALONG, AND PARENTS WHO WANT TO BE COOL OR JUST DO NOT PAY ATTENTION TO THEIR KIDS ALSO ALLOW IT.I BELIEVE THAT THE OVERWHELMING RISE IN THE SEX SLAVE AND CHILD SEX ABUSE ARE ABOUT THE ONLY THINGS SOME PEOPLE THINK THEY HAVE CONTROL OVER SINCE IT IS EASY TO RAPE A CHILD OR RAPE AND BEAT UP A SLAVE AND THEY ARE NOT REAL MEN AND WOMEN ANYMORE. PARENTS ALLOW PPL TO HAVE SEX WITH THEIR KIDS FOR DRUG MONEY! IT IS JUST TOO SICKENING.WE NEED SOME STRONG MORALS BROUGHT BACK .WE NEED REAL MEN AND WOMEN TO STAND UP AND BE WHAT WE WERE PUT ON EARTH TO DO AND TO GET THEIR HEADS OUT OF THE BOOZE AND DRUGS!
2006-08-07 18:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st is what the movies are showing these days with the character meeting in last than half a day and they have sex the very same night.
Everyone dream of such adventure of meeting a girl in fastest time possible and having them on the bed for supper. What these people don't know the character in the movies are paid to act. In real life, only way to get a female on the bed in the fastest time is a prostitute. Remember you need to pay rather than getting paid to seek this thrill.
2006-08-08 02:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by davidtay25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's not a big deal.
Most people now accept their sexuality as a part of being human, much like eating and sleeping. It's nothing to get stressed out over.
A better question would be, why would anyone make it a big deal in the first place?
2006-08-08 01:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by extton 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because society has become more evolved. We are no longer living by Puritan ideals designed to control and subjugate women. We have more freedom. But sadly there are still an awful lot of people that seem to want to return to the Victorian era.
2006-08-08 01:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Casual sex was in a time of the 70's before aids.
Now its safe sex generation. No glove no love. Especially if you have different partners. Best thing is monogamy.
2006-08-08 01:41:39 · answer #5 · answered by PeaceTree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say No if you want to. Don’t feel pressure because you’re not sure what to do. If you’re not sure then don’t do it. Sex should not be casual. Guys will say almost anything to get you in bed. Don’t do anything until you are 100% ready.
2006-08-08 02:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by zerospacegurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Society makes it seem like sex is something that everyone must do to be cool but it's not when your not married it's considered incest.
2006-08-08 01:35:24 · answer #7 · answered by [♥]Lil' CC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There IS a real lack of respect in this country. It goes way deeper than sex too.
2006-08-08 02:01:19 · answer #8 · answered by Tony T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with saying No at anytime. It is your body and if you don't want to have sex then make it clear and simple. Just say NO I don't want sex with you. It is my choice and you have no right to have sex with me.
2006-08-08 04:59:59 · answer #9 · answered by NIck N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people have become immoral with no self respect. They shun responsibility and seek self gratification.
The Devil is winning.
Google-Sodom and Gomorrah for more insight.
Sex sells and lots of people are buying.
2006-08-08 01:43:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋