2006-08-07 18:10:15 · 23 answers · asked by Sad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
leave him, that is mental abuse and will not get better with time. If you change what you are doing he will only find fault with the new things you are doing. There should be a women shelter or helpline near you , call and get away!
2006-08-07 18:39:25 · answer #1 · answered by beth l 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how it makes you feel. I think you've probably tried that already though. My mom and her noe ex-husband had this same problem. He yelled and went out of control for very little things. It got to a point of riduculosy and she decided to end it. All the headaches were not worth it. Then again, she didn't love him so it was no problem letting go of him. How do you feel about your husband? Do you feel it's worth trying to save what you have already built? The best solution is trying to talk to him again and tell him the concequences of his actions. If he really loves you, he should measure the possibility of loosing you and try to respect you a little more, at least.
Good luck with everything!
2006-08-08 01:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by Athena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is easy to see that you have a problem. Verbal abuse is still abuse and should not be tolerated. You need to do several things. First, you need to go find a counselor of marriage, you need to attend and he does to. If he doesn't you need to go by yourself. Second, next time it happens stand up for yourself and in a calm but determined voice tell him that you will no longer take this abuse and if he can not speak to you like an adult he can leave or you can. Be prepared to leave for a while.
You do not have to take verbal abuse... You both need help in your marriage. Seek help or get out.
2006-08-08 01:27:00 · answer #3 · answered by NIck N 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he screams at you for every small infraction, you might want to consider either anger management classes for him or leaving him to fend for himself. But to be honest to both sides if you are not holding up to your end of the marriage contract you might want to rethink the issue and try harder... This question is very hard to answer without both sides of the issue on the discussion table... Good Luck
2006-08-08 01:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by eldertrouble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats abuse.Wether its verbal or physical its still abuse.It's only the first step to physical abuse. You need to think about how much you are gonna put up with before (and it will) it gets worse.
Please protect and save yourself now because most women dont get these early warning signs. And if you dont think about yourself think about your kids and other members of your family. How would they feel if they knew you where being abused?
2006-08-08 01:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Girls... You DO NOT become someones piece of property to be disrespected when you marry. Marriage is a legal showing that you CHOOSE to be LIFE PARTNERS.
Tell him NOT to talk to you until he is able to speak to you like an adult and with respect. PERIOD...
Don't allow him to make excuses and don't you make excuses for him.
2006-08-08 01:32:13 · answer #6 · answered by ~Me~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a real woman and get out that abusive relationship you dont deserve that you are not his child are dog and he is not your daddy there is a good man waiting for you hes not your true mate
2006-08-08 01:16:54 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you love him, and buy him a large bottle of whiskey, and wait until he is so drunk that he cant walk, then break both his legs with a baseball bat, and spit on him, and leave him for ever.
2006-08-08 01:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you sit him down and let him know that you do not like it , that you will not tolerate it , that he needs to learn to have more respect for you like you do for him, and that if he dont like the way your talking to him tell him to get over it.
2006-08-08 01:23:42 · answer #9 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
remember to stick up for yourself and start yelling at him for the small things let him know how it feels... one good turn deserves another
2006-08-08 01:32:54 · answer #10 · answered by concered 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋