I go tkicked out of the barn I board my horse at cuz my mom and my trainer had a HUGE fight. and now I cna tgo back. and this barn is my favorite palce to be. and now I cant sleep and I cant eat. im always dizzy and I always have a head ache. and Im always alert and scared... wats going on?
2006-08-07 18:09:31 · 12 answers · asked by Gabbrielle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell your mom how you are feeling . Maybe she will swallow her pride so than her daughter can be happy. That's what a good parent does. That's what I have done.
2006-08-07 18:13:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably having a panic attack. OK, focus on your breathing. Calm yourself down. Think of the worst thing that can happen in this situation. Can you handle it? Well, can you? Come on, you know you can. So you might have to go to another stable and at first that will be uncomfortable, but you will triumph over this. In fact when a door closes in one place it means that an opportunity for something new is near. Get excited about the future! Who knows, maybe you'll make new friends or meet the boy of your dreams or learn more about riding than the other place could offer. The future is so fun to speculate about.
Good luck!
2006-08-08 01:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by Polly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are having anxiety. I get it all the time. Just don't panic and know that thousands of people are going through this everday. You need to just chill out.
Sounds like you are super attached to the barn. I grew up in a horse barn myself and I wanna cry when I think of my childhood barn and all my friends and everything about it. It's part of your life and you don't know what to do without it. You will find a new place to board your horse and you'll meet new people. It will all be ok in the end. Just tell yourself that. (At least you still have your horsey!)
2006-08-08 01:14:02 · answer #3 · answered by oxosasoxo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have an anxiety disorder and need a good psychiatrist to help you find a medication to help you out and a therapist to talk through things. There's also an excellent book called The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook (Bourne) which will help you see why you react to things this way and will give you some practical and easy things to try to combat anxiety.
2006-08-08 01:17:14 · answer #4 · answered by katz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are panicking for some reason. Find a better trainer and stable. Everything will be okay. I think that it must have been a huge fight to get evicted!!!!
2006-08-08 01:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by The Nag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go talk to the trainer and see if they will let you go there with out your mom and if not u can always look forward to having your horse at your house.
2006-08-08 01:15:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u not eating is making u dizzy. the alertness is ur body going to servial mode u need to eat or go to the doc caz it will get bad i have been there.
2006-08-08 01:16:05 · answer #7 · answered by mikey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurt your feelings. Your allowed to have harsh feeling. But relax, things will get better, I promise. keep yourself busy, read, or talk to your friend on the phone and vent, Good Luck, youll be very sweetie
2006-08-08 01:14:13 · answer #8 · answered by peacfulwar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are having anxiety attacks tell you Parents maybe some resolution can be made hang in there it will be okay
2006-08-08 01:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by pycosal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom or go to a doctor. Try adopting a cat or dog They help relieve stress.
2006-08-08 01:24:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋